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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Still Blue, Still Stocking: The Bluestocking remains open in 2021

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ErrolTheDragon · 25/06/2021 14:06

I've nicked a title, opened the door, dusted off the bar.

Come in and drown your sorrows, celebrate or just hang out in good company.

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SpringCrocus · 10/08/2021 07:15

I like voles. And goats. Gertrude can huddle under my quilt and share a cheese straw

ErrolTheDragon · 10/08/2021 15:10

I'm just back from a nice walk, in the course of which we saw some rare breed pigs (gloucester old spot, I think), including a section of field with a sow and six tiny piglets. They were like puppies, a bit unsteady, flopping down in the grass at random, piling up and arranging themselves into rows.

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GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 15:44

I've just noticed that I've racked up another deletion. Apparently addressing our monitors directly and asking them how they might feel if it was them just isn't on.

Admittedly I did use some disrespectful language, but nothing in the league of abuse or threats. I thought I might skating close to the line but nope, I was beyond it.

ablutiions · 10/08/2021 19:42

@GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman what the hell did you say? Which is a daft question because if you repeat it, they will delete it again 😂

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 20:34

I might have used the term 'hurty feelz' in a context considered a bit challenging. I think that was what it was. I can't remember anything else from that post likely to cause distress.

I keep saying things that I think are just this side of the guidelines and a couple of times it's turned out that they're not.

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 20:35

Anyway, slow gin, anyone?

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 20:36

GAH! Sloe gin. I hate autocorrupt.

SpringCrocus · 10/08/2021 21:01

I hate gin so I make fruit vodkas instead. Gin gives me hurty feelz.

Waitwhat23 · 10/08/2021 21:46

@GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman I'll have a sloe gin mixed with lemon tonic if it's available - it makes the flavour of the sloes come out all the better

ErrolTheDragon · 10/08/2021 21:55

That sounds delicious. Though I must make a confession.... I've never actually had any sloe gin.

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GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 22:32

ShockShockShock Errol! You are missing out.

I've never tried it with lemon tonic but normal tonic is good.

Waitwhat23 · 10/08/2021 22:38

Sloe gin is delicious. Tescos Finest make a nice one. I've planted a sloe bush in my garden but I think it's going to be a long, long time before I get enough berries to make my own sloe gin.

mollythemeerkat · 10/08/2021 22:43

Highame - the voles arrived this morning - some of them were a bit travelsick. We have organised them into two teams - one is mowing the lawn and the others are dusting with the dusters you sent. They send their best regards.

Waitwhat23 · 10/08/2021 23:06

@GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman there's a thread on another board discussing the same issue as a thread on here and it's quite eye opening the difference in moderation tolerance. One or two comments have made me think 'eeek! You'll get a deletion for that for sure!' and then I've realised it's not this board.

theThreeofWeevils · 10/08/2021 23:20

Gertrude the Goat
Oftener up a tree than on the grass,
Trump'd every day she lived...?

BlackeyedSusan · 11/08/2021 00:26

Just sitting in the corner with ear defenders. Two hours of bloody talking and quite a bit of being sworn at and a sensory meltdown imminent...

Someone is poorly but not so poorly that they go quiet. Oh no. We've had the ranty poorly.

BlackeyedSusan · 11/08/2021 00:29

Sympathy is a bit more difficult to find when you have been called various swear words!

BlackeyedSusan · 11/08/2021 00:31

Sorry about your DH* spring

DH=dick head.

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 11/08/2021 07:23

[quote Waitwhat23]@GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman there's a thread on another board discussing the same issue as a thread on here and it's quite eye opening the difference in moderation tolerance. One or two comments have made me think 'eeek! You'll get a deletion for that for sure!' and then I've realised it's not this board.[/quote]
The monitors, I assume, cannot be everywhere. Two of my three deletions addressed them directly, so it seems they don't like that. I used to wonder if they really existed, but I don't any longer.

For anyone wanting sloe gin, just get yourself to a patch of countryside with blackthorn growing at some stage in the late autumn. Sloes are supposed to have been frosted before picking, but you can either pop them in your freezer for a few hours or prick them with a pin to get the same effect (slightly split skins). You only need a pint by volume to make a small batch of slow gin.

SpringCrocus · 11/08/2021 22:46

If you freeze them, then put them in the kilner jar you intend to use to make sloe gin, just pour over the gin and the skins will split nicely (other preserving jars are available)

SpringCrocus · 12/08/2021 02:23

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theThreeofWeevils · 12/08/2021 02:38

Oh, Spring. Do you feel safe now? If not, call the police. Also, do you have a nearby RL friend? Call her. Wish I could help more. You don't need this. Dunno about ALL men, but there's a pattern of behaviour. Keep safe.
Strength, and camel.

SpringCrocus · 12/08/2021 08:48

Oh, yes. Quite safe. But just... what toddler type behaviour! Just grow up, fgs.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/08/2021 09:49

No, it's not all men - but that makes it worse for the women who get stuck with a bad 'un, I think.

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SpringCrocus · 12/08/2021 22:38

Fabulous the AIBU thread about ERC and MW getting so much sunlight on the issue. Interesting how the moderating is so very different in here, isn't it!

Sorry about what I posted last night, pulled as was a bit...identifying.

All quiet tonight. H has apologised. Seems contrite.

Cheese and marmite straws and sloe vodka, anyone?

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