Whilst every person who regrets transitioning is deeply sad, these numbers are by far eclipsed by the thousands and thousands who, like me, would have benefited by transitioning earlier.
How do we know the number of detransitioners when we aren't doing anything to research these numbers?
We've got numbers for the Tavistock who transition... but no one ever follows them up.
Cos thats transphobic.
And detransitioners are shamed by the trans community as being traitors or fakes etc. And worse than the 'bigot feminists' because they disprove the 'positive affirmation only model' as being a long of bullshit.
They are regarded as nothing more than 'collatoral damage'. I mean look at the wording above - as sad as it is. Detransistioners are worth nothing, but to comment that its sad and that all the trans people are more important.
Detransistioners are a nuisance. An inconvience that no one wants to take responsibility for. We have made some progress in them now having their existence acknowledged though...
So there's no incentive in 'coming out' as a detransitioner. Something thats hard enough given how much you invest you life in before.
How many more would detransition if they thought the community wouldn't shun them?
But yes, all we get is 'its a little bit sad' with no real thought about accountability as to why harm was ever allowed to happen to them.
It says it all.