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Brilliant debate on GMB about #RIPJKRowling

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Destinysdaughter · 16/09/2020 08:44

Just watched it, it featured Benjamin Butterworth, George Galloway and Rose of Dawn. BB got his arse handed to him by Piers and Rose was brilliant! Well worth a watch! It was on at 8.15 so you can watch it in an hours time if you're at home. Also Twitter reactions were v positive, with pp wanting to buy the book as a result!

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FloralBunting · 18/09/2020 00:30

Ah yes, the old 'you can have your personal boundaries' schtick when challenged on his own sexuality, coupled with a bit of 'this never happens' when lesbians and other gay men are brought up.

NotBadConsidering · 18/09/2020 00:34

When he gasps dramatically at 6.25 I half expected him to follow it up with “oh my! I think I have the vapours!”. I mean could he be anymore faux outraged?!

😮😵

😆😆 what a tool.

FloralBunting · 18/09/2020 00:37

Yeah, like he's never heard the outrageous statement that 'No one is born in the wrong body' before. Can you imagine the reaction if someone says 'Unicorns are not real animals' to him? Or 'There isn't really a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow'?

Have the paramedics on standby with some oxygen. Poor love.

BatShite · 18/09/2020 02:28

Ahh this has made my night. It doesn't quite beat Harrop for me though, I have a feeling that will always be my fave interview, but it certainly is amazing Grin Also watched the India one, with Piers twospirit penguin arguments, which actually made a lot of sense..oddly. Have made the same argument myself a few times, that they will scream 'respect everyone elses gender identity, accept what they say, no exceptions' til they are blue in the face, but then at the same time, tell you you absolutely ARE CIS, are not non binary, are not this, are that...and they don't appear to understand the problem there.

ItsLateHumpty · 18/09/2020 04:07

If Benjamin was a real trans ally he would have given his platform to an actual transgendered person, not spoken for them. He comes across as transphobic in that interview too. He denied trans men were men, and he was quick to make sure everyone knew he wasn’t trans himself.

I suggest he stay in his lane, sit down, educate himself, and listen.

I really hope he doesn’t get cancelled for this...

SunsetBeetch · 18/09/2020 06:49

@Rubidium

Not sure if this has been posted elsewhere but Benjamin Butterworth went on Talk Radio today along with Bev Jackson of the LGB Alliance to discuss the recent BMA announcement.

He really is a berk.

Here it is in full:

This is my favourite bit: twitter.com/OkBiology/status/1306635799765676032 "I find that Bigotry!!"

Bev Jackson: calm and reasoned. Butterworth: ranty nonsense with added straw men.

That was some bad acting.

Great to see LGB Alliance getting some air time too. I don't think that would have happened even afew months ago.

TorkTorkBam · 18/09/2020 06:57

Bev is ace.

SunsetBeetch · 18/09/2020 07:02

I like the Talk Radio discussion format better: eveyone gets a chance to speak without being cut off or talked over. I know that's Piers' shtick though so GMB is unlikely to change.

Kettlingur · 18/09/2020 07:11

@ItsLateHumpty

If Benjamin was a real trans ally he would have given his platform to an actual transgendered person, not spoken for them. He comes across as transphobic in that interview too. He denied trans men were men, and he was quick to make sure everyone knew he wasn’t trans himself.

I suggest he stay in his lane, sit down, educate himself, and listen.

I really hope he doesn’t get cancelled for this...

Then again, he's the same person who decided to identify as black and take a person of colour's delegate space.
ArabellaScott · 18/09/2020 07:58

StarGrin

That is the best pantomime gasp and headshake I've ever come across.

Court jester, indeed.

TorkTorkBam · 18/09/2020 08:01

@ArabellaScott

StarGrin

That is the best pantomime gasp and headshake I've ever come across.

Court jester, indeed.

It shows it is all a fun game to him.
ShagMeRiggins · 18/09/2020 08:09

He did support the idea that homosexual people ought to be allowed to choose who they’re with, gender identity aside.

Of course he states that from his point of view as a gay man who is attracted to the male physique. He says nothing of the rights of lesbians to reject transwomen who have male bodies (penises).

Unfortunately Bev didn’t make a clear case describing that when lesbians do it they are vilified and harangued into accepting “lady cock” Hmm and deemed transphobic and bigoted blah blah blah.

There was a lot more that could have been said because the public really doesn’t understand that this is happening.

However, I do like the way she kept it about sex and medicine, as much as possible, and didn’t get distracted by feelings.

Also, I’m sure this has been mentioned here as being problematic but I haven’t seen it, in one of the Twitter comments a poster mentioned how the whole ‘born in the wrong body’ is ableist, which is something I hadn’t thought through.

BettyFilous · 18/09/2020 08:20

Oh my! Benjamin prefers “male physicality”, aka genital fetishist in TRA parlance. I hope he’s donned his hard hat and locked down his social media.

Love Bev’s calm, unhurried explanations.

OvaHere · 18/09/2020 08:42

@BettyFilous

Oh my! Benjamin prefers “male physicality”, aka genital fetishist in TRA parlance. I hope he’s donned his hard hat and locked down his social media.

Love Bev’s calm, unhurried explanations.

Nah, he'll get a pass just as Harrop and OJ did. Boundary removal is for women. Men are allowed to say no.
merrymouse · 18/09/2020 08:50

Unfortunately Bev didn’t make a clear case describing that when lesbians do it they are vilified and harangued into accepting “lady cock” hmm and deemed transphobic and bigoted blah blah blah.

And that its not just about people posting rubbish on twitter or harassing lesbians in clubs, but some dating apps making it impossible to state a sexual preference based on actual sex.

merrymouse · 18/09/2020 08:52

Then again, he's the same person who decided to identify as black and take a person of colour's delegate space.

And then argued the toss when he was asked to step down.

DeaconBoo · 18/09/2020 09:11

@Chicchicchicchiclana

I have got a female relative (I'm going to call her cis and hetero just to speak in the language she uses) who is 30 years old who deleted me off FB for sharing the meme comparing what JKR actually said about people who menstruate to the Twitter comments (choke on my lady dick etc) she received in reply.

Unbelievable but true.

Sorry - just to be clear, she reported you for the meme and you got your Facebook account deleted? I had no idea this happened, particularly when it's so hard to even get one offensive (anti-islam etc) picture removed.
queenofknives · 18/09/2020 09:12

@DialSquare

Benjamin Button looks (and sounds) like the love child of Harrop and Little Owen Jones.
This is the perfect description!

That whole interview was hilarious Grin

StrangeLookingParasite · 18/09/2020 17:35

[quote AntsInPenzance]Benjamin getting his arse handed to him on twitter. He just doesn't know when to give in.

twitter.com/benjaminbutter/status/1306169229062922241[/quote]
Oh this twitter thread is gold.

Winesalot · 18/09/2020 21:36

Oh dear. And now saying that because Bev Jackson said no one is born in the wrong body, (cue a hysterical gasp), she is denying the existence of trans people!

twitter.com/benjaminbutter/status/1306968897309028352?s=21

TorkTorkBam · 18/09/2020 21:56

Gosh, on that thread he is suggesting that Rose of Dawn is "pulling up the ladder behind them".

Not tagged Rose of course.

Always astonishing to see the misplaced confidence of the mediocre man, as someone noted above.

Of course I gasped dramatically when I read his tweet. It is only natural.

Winesalot · 18/09/2020 21:58

Grin at the gasps !

TorkTorkBam · 18/09/2020 21:59

His gasp so needs to be a meme.

Winesalot · 18/09/2020 22:03

It is worthy indeed.

TorkTorkBam · 18/09/2020 22:10

He hasn't even tagged LGB Alliance or Bev into his mad accusation about them.

Brilliant debate on GMB about #RIPJKRowling
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