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Misogynistic bros part 1 zillion: Stephen Fry

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Ereshkigal · 08/07/2018 17:58

Why are these men so contemptuous about lesbians' and women's rights? And what the fuck do they imagine it has to do with them?

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Floorplan · 08/07/2018 18:01

Could we have an example link. Is he the gay actor who got stagefright? What in particular has he said?

Baroquehavoc · 08/07/2018 18:01

I said on another thread, but knowing fuck all about a situation and having fuck all experience, doesn't stop them from voicing their opinion. And the biggest fuck you is they expect us to listen and do as they say.

Floorplan · 08/07/2018 18:01

Is he like that guardian idiot?

UpstartCrow · 08/07/2018 18:03

The fact that an entire social movement has colluded to gaslight and coerce lesbians is utterly shameful.

The tweet is posted on the last page of this thread;
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3299646-Lesbians-protest-at-London-Pride-getthelout?msgid=79263515

Ereshkigal · 08/07/2018 18:06

said on another thread, but knowing fuck all about a situation and having fuck all experience, doesn't stop them from voicing their opinion. And the biggest fuck you is they expect us to listen and do as they say.

Yes!

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TheChampagneGalop · 08/07/2018 18:07

I wonder if he thinks that the statement "gay men are male homosexuals " is bigoted too.

Ereshkigal · 08/07/2018 18:07

Wanking on as if women's and lesbians' rights are identity politics but trans ideology isn't.

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ImAGoofyGoober · 08/07/2018 18:08

He’s always hated women, doesn’t surprise me he has no support for lesbians.

Yet so many women seem to idolise him Confused

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 08/07/2018 18:09

AFAIK 1.3 million people follow Fry on Twitter because he is (was?) funny, not because he has any particular wisdom or moral authority.
He was good as Jeeves and Lord Melchett. But no reason to expect anything other than boring male privilege and bog standard misogyny from him.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 08/07/2018 18:10

'Wanking on as if women's and lesbians' rights are identity politics but trans ideology isn't.'

Ha ha ha yes.
He hasn't really thought this through very far.

Datun · 08/07/2018 18:10

It's infuriating.

Fry might well be a misogynist.

Frankly, I've come to the conclusion that it's almost the default position. One has to consciously challenge it, in order to not be one.

But there are quite a few people who do not understand the issue. I don't think the public is at all conscious of it.

Sexual harassment is what is being objected to.

Can someone tweet Fry, and tell him that. That the lesbians were asserting there is no such thing as a female penis.

I can't see someone with his level of exposure dismissing that.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 08/07/2018 18:12

Wonder how he would respond to the old 'would you sleep with a transman with a vagina?' test.
(But I don't tweet so not going to be me that asks him.)

Abouttoblow · 08/07/2018 18:12

I know I said this on the previous thread but the snide, underhanded way he used (the word we're not allowed to say) with a question mark as if he didn't know what it meant has really pissed me off.

Ereshkigal · 08/07/2018 18:14

Yes I also caught that, abouttoblow

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Abouttoblow · 08/07/2018 18:14

Loads of people have tweeted him about it, myself included.

He's obviously getting the usual pats on the back Angry

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Ereshkigal · 08/07/2018 18:15

He was good as Jeeves and Lord Melchett. But no reason to expect anything other than boring male privilege and bog standard misogyny from him.

Well said.

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Floorplan · 08/07/2018 18:19

Thanks Upstart, bloody hell what a thing to say.

Datun · 08/07/2018 18:23

Loads of people have tweeted him about it, myself included.

Got it. That's most of my 'benefit of the doubt' cards used up. (And I had loads).

Bingpot · 08/07/2018 18:23

I can't find his tweet - did he delete it?

SimonBridges · 08/07/2018 18:26

As someone else pointed out on twitter women have had 100s of years of not being believed when talking about the female experience. Now lesbians are not being believed when talking about the lesbian experience.

As a very high profile gay man he would have done much better to just stay quiet on the whole thing, regardless of his views, just like Sandi Toksvig, Sue Perkins and Claire Balding are doing. I’m sure those women have opinions on this topic, and I wouldn’t like to guess where they lie, but they aren’t voicing them.

busyboysmum · 08/07/2018 18:28

Yes looks like he has deleted it.

SimonBridges · 08/07/2018 18:32

He has deleted it it seems.

Melamin · 08/07/2018 18:32

Does not surprise me one little bit after watching him over the years. Women are an oddity to him and a long way 'other'.

The tweet makes him look like he does not know what he is talking about. He just has no clue what it was about and is dragging up old attitudes in this debate. It is beyond passé.

daimbars · 08/07/2018 18:34
  • Can someone tweet Fry, and tell him that. That the lesbians were asserting there is no such thing as a female penis.

I can't see someone with his level of exposure dismissing that.*

Datun you have said yourself you are straight - you underestimate the solidarity LGBTs show towards one another.

Stephen Fry is gay himself - he will have much more empathy for the hate and transphobia trans women experience every day than for transphobic lesbians trying to hijack pride over a few Tweets they've found online about a female penis.

Here's Stephen Fry's Tweet if anyone missed it.

Wearies the soul indeed.

Misogynistic bros part 1 zillion: Stephen Fry
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