Thanks all for your wise words.
It does seem a bit romantisied!!
Feel sorry for Natalie Portman, she is more feisty and (personal opinion here!) more beautiful! Not that that should count for anything but as I say just my thoughts (before am hounded!!).
My goodness, imagine coming in and telling your mum, dad and uncle how many times you bonked!!!!!!!!! Sorry that over simlifies..... it's pretty crapola.