(Or what *badvoc& said rather more eloquently!
).
I do think it's hugely important not to assume all women in history were passive victims, because they weren't.
But I've got to admit, I do think it is quite off to apply anachronistic misogynistic narratives to the past, and pretend they count as historical interpretations. This picture of Jane as some kind of marriage-wrecker is massively anachronistic and untenable, for the reasons people have given on the thread about the web of power and control and expectation that was spun around her by that society.
Yes, she may well have done her utmost to tip the scales one way or another, and we could make moral judgements about how she did that or which way we feel she leapt at times when there was some choice in the matter. But to focus on her as a marriage wrecked in isolation is just crassly absurd.