Thanks octopusinabox. I have been to her meetings before and basically dont like her manner. Its a very happy clappy group- dont know if all the groups are the same.
Weigh in happens and then she goes around the group and says "Well done x you have lost 2lbs this week- how did you keep your self on target, what do you want to lose this week"
Or "oh dear only half a lb this week x. you must be disappointed" cocked hear and looked all sad....
To which I replied "no not really Im surprised I lost anything at all with what I have eaten"
What what has stopped you...so I said about trying to use up food to get it out of house (Im not throwing good foodd away), had a wedding at weekend, trying to get head around diet and find ideas that would be suitable for my family and lifestyle.
She countered all these with an arguement which would have been helpful if I didnt have every fucker looking at me and it didnt go on so long. My friends werent impressed either.
I dont have time to make a omlette for breakfast or the desire to eat a breakfast quiche...Im lucky to get two minutes to eat breakfast!
When she rings Im going to tell her straight- I dont want to be focussed on in group- its not how I will be motivated- it will make me leave and I will follow the diet on my own in stead of spending money my family dont actually have to spare being humilated.