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Royal row between King Charles and Earl Spencer 2

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Viviennemary · 18/09/2026 14:17

Buckingham Palace have said they won't be commenting further on the book. But I expect plenty of others will be and it's not even published yet so I started this second thread. I really liked Diana and thought she got treated shabbily by Charles. But really writing a book of gripes 30 years later is not on imho. I noticed on the news Harry declined to comment on it. Sensible decision for once.

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Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:32

Theunamedcat · 19/09/2026 17:31

No she was the nanny but diana spread nasty rumours claiming she had an abortion cost her the job and destroyed her socially

Princess Diana had been told that information by Martin Bashir - who was a master of manipulation

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 17:32

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 16:49

Most 60 year olds are actually in work nowadays.

Hence my retired question!

IAmATorturedPoet · 19/09/2026 17:33

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:21

The ones who write that it's a crazy idea and a conspiracy idea, that Charles could possibly kill his ex wife. Just because he is Royal.

If a regular woman wrote in a letter to her friend 'my husband is planning an accident in my car' and then she was killed in a car crash. People would be suspicious.

Sadly, too many men HAVE killed their ex wives.

Edited

The evidence doesn’t stack up to support your theory, that’s what people are challenging you on.

You are welcome to believe whatever you like but you should be able to back it up. Someone putting something in a letter isn’t enough.

Serenster · 19/09/2026 17:33

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:28

Really?! Was Tiggy the third person in the marriage?

Poor Tiggy was blameless, but was targeted by Diana who believed that she and Charles were having an affair, and that Tiggy had aborted the resulting baby, because Martin Bashir told her so.

The BBC ended up having to pay damages to Tiggy for the damage they caused to her.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-62250479

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:33

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 17:31

Nobody cares, well you might!

What do you mean "nobody cares"?! 😱
Jeff is an actual National Treasure.

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:34

Serenster · 19/09/2026 17:33

Poor Tiggy was blameless, but was targeted by Diana who believed that she and Charles were having an affair, and that Tiggy had aborted the resulting baby, because Martin Bashir told her so.

The BBC ended up having to pay damages to Tiggy for the damage they caused to her.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-62250479

Good grief! That's terrible!

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:34

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:34

Good grief! That's terrible!

Did you not know that?

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:36

Serenster · 19/09/2026 17:33

Poor Tiggy was blameless, but was targeted by Diana who believed that she and Charles were having an affair, and that Tiggy had aborted the resulting baby, because Martin Bashir told her so.

The BBC ended up having to pay damages to Tiggy for the damage they caused to her.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-62250479

I've just looked her up, her son was a page boy at William and Kate's wedding, so they obviously stay in touch.

Serenster · 19/09/2026 17:36

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:31

People have said that Martin Bashir told Princess Diana that Charles and Tiggy Legge Bourke were having an affair. He produced forged papers to prove it to her.

No one has said that Martin Bashir told her that Charles was planning a crash in her car

No, but given the two claims were made together (the car crash would be so Charles could marry Tiggy) and the latter claim was completely fantastical, it rather undermines the idea that this was a belief she could reasonably have held.

AcquadiP · 19/09/2026 17:37

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:22

I disagree.

And that's your prerogative. But the facts are that the Met police inquiry and the coroners inquest both ruled out a "laser." And crash reconstruction experts concluded that the Mercedes was out of control before it entered the Alma Tunnel and that camera flashes, either before it entered the tunnel or whilst it was inside the tunnel, would not have altered the outcome.

noonames · 19/09/2026 17:37

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 15:13

If KC was giddy and elated at Diana's death, it does bring up the old theory of 'could they have planned her death'

EC is a brave man. Because if I was him I would think that I could be killed for writing this book. Maybe as he's getting to a fairly late stage of his life, he is willing to take the risk

🤣🤣

Theunamedcat · 19/09/2026 17:37

noonames · 19/09/2026 16:53

Does he say how he knows that - surely he didn’t tell her?

That quote is actually almost believable with how she was behaving with the press at the time a bit of natural thought

BunnyBunbunbun · 19/09/2026 17:38

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 16:52

That link won't open for me but I think I've seen the photo that you mean.

What I mean is ES writing that KC was as happy as a lottery winner after Diana died, is defintiely going to add fuel to the theory that they killed Diana.

My elderly mother rang me yesterday and said "I've always thought that the Royal Family killed Diana"

Edited

Perhaps explain to your elderly mother that the Spencers aren't particularly reliable on certain things, e.g. Diana's sister claim that Diana always wore her seatbelt when there are photos of Diana sitting next to both her sisters in the back of the car and none of them are wearing seatbelts even though it's been mandatory to wear seatbelts in the back of cars for decades.

You can also point out to your mother that if the Spencers genuinely believed that the royal family killed Diana, Earl Spencer would have put that in his book.

The royal murder theory was invented by slimebag Mohamed Al-Fayed, who didn't want to accept that it was his own drunk employee who caused the deaths of his son and Diana.

I guess things like the actual investigation and 6000-page report by a foreign police force that found nothing to back up a murder theory won't convince the people who hold these tin-hat theories.

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:40

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 17:32

Hence my retired question!

Jeff is anything but retired. You know those massive obelisks they have like on the Embankment?. She's installed 6 this afternoon in the grounds of her manor. She's also advised on the new series of Strictly.

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:40

BunnyBunbunbun · 19/09/2026 17:38

Perhaps explain to your elderly mother that the Spencers aren't particularly reliable on certain things, e.g. Diana's sister claim that Diana always wore her seatbelt when there are photos of Diana sitting next to both her sisters in the back of the car and none of them are wearing seatbelts even though it's been mandatory to wear seatbelts in the back of cars for decades.

You can also point out to your mother that if the Spencers genuinely believed that the royal family killed Diana, Earl Spencer would have put that in his book.

The royal murder theory was invented by slimebag Mohamed Al-Fayed, who didn't want to accept that it was his own drunk employee who caused the deaths of his son and Diana.

I guess things like the actual investigation and 6000-page report by a foreign police force that found nothing to back up a murder theory won't convince the people who hold these tin-hat theories.

It's not my fault that 'Prince Charles sounded as happy as a a lottery winner after Diana's death'

Has brought up the theory again.

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:41

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:34

Did you not know that?

I didn't know @jeffgoldblumwas an ice dancer until this morning.

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2026 17:42

bingobangs · 19/09/2026 15:45

Clearly I wasn’t wrong about time spent on here just the reason why. And I do assume older people are more pro the RF which again is true I think.

Might be - the stats should tell us. It’s hard for younger people to understand what Elizabeth II meant to her generation. They’d been through a terrible war and austerity went on for years even afterwards. Then a pretty young queen came to the throne and this chimed with the post-war optimism. My mum was younger than her but I’m sure she felt tat Elizabeth had been a reassuring constant in the background of her life.

i used to sneer when I was younger but now I completely get that wish for continuity. It’s not the same now, obvs, but I hope that a slimmer monarchy, like those of Scandinavia, will remain for my lifetime.

BunnyLake · 19/09/2026 17:43

AgathaDanbury · 18/09/2026 15:30

It's just not plausible to suggest that Charles would be 'elated' on the day that such a horrific thing happened to his sons.

This is an extract from the book, and I suspect it says more about Spencer than Windsor.

"Looking back now, I suspect the prince’s first reaction must have been to think more of how this event might free him to marry the woman he loved, rather than appreciating the loss of one he did not. It can be hard to feel too much sympathy for an ex-spouse, or those who care for them profoundly, after bitter divorce.”

He ‘suspects’? Well that’s not much to go on. I think in court that would be an ‘Objection’ Speculation! from the opposing counsel.

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2026 17:44

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:41

I didn't know @jeffgoldblumwas an ice dancer until this morning.

Nothing would surprise me about Jeff. He’s a legend.

noonames · 19/09/2026 17:45

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 16:59

How does it require Henri Paul to be willing to commit suicide. Who said that he was in on it.

What I have read is reports of a laser being seen to be shined at the car in the Tunnel just before it crashed

This is literally from an episode of Spooks, where a barmy ex agent is convinced that the security services killed Diana and says she will blow up London (or something) if they don’t provide her with proof. So they hurriedly come up with a nonsensical way it could have been done. Great to see Spooks used as a source, I’m a big fan of Peter Firth 👏👏

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:45

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2026 17:44

Nothing would surprise me about Jeff. He’s a legend.

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

jeffgoldblum · 19/09/2026 17:46

Well this thread has become rather strange and confusing ….

apart from my accolades of course! They are always on spot! 😁

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2026 17:47

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 17:40

It's not my fault that 'Prince Charles sounded as happy as a a lottery winner after Diana's death'

Has brought up the theory again.

Only with some crazy people.

OctopusFriend · 19/09/2026 17:48

jeffgoldblum · 19/09/2026 17:46

Well this thread has become rather strange and confusing ….

apart from my accolades of course! They are always on spot! 😁

Edited

How's the cheese making?
Plus I've bought tickets to your One Mumsnetter Show.

jeffgoldblum · 19/09/2026 17:48

noonames · 19/09/2026 17:45

This is literally from an episode of Spooks, where a barmy ex agent is convinced that the security services killed Diana and says she will blow up London (or something) if they don’t provide her with proof. So they hurriedly come up with a nonsensical way it could have been done. Great to see Spooks used as a source, I’m a big fan of Peter Firth 👏👏

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