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Royal row between King Charles and Earl Spencer 2

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Viviennemary · 18/09/2026 14:17

Buckingham Palace have said they won't be commenting further on the book. But I expect plenty of others will be and it's not even published yet so I started this second thread. I really liked Diana and thought she got treated shabbily by Charles. But really writing a book of gripes 30 years later is not on imho. I noticed on the news Harry declined to comment on it. Sensible decision for once.

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noonames · Yesterday 14:04

Viviennemary · Yesterday 13:59

Earl Spencer himself mentioned Meghan in his latest spoutings. And said he could see similarities in how Harry and Meghan are being treated to the way Diana was. Then had the nerve to say the Palace had hit him below the belt in their response to his book. I just heard this on the news. He is stirring up as much trouble as he can and is not looking good imho.

Did he really equate press interest in Diana and Meghan with cancer? 😬
I’ve seen it mentioned but not the actual interview.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:07

Viviennemary · Yesterday 13:59

Earl Spencer himself mentioned Meghan in his latest spoutings. And said he could see similarities in how Harry and Meghan are being treated to the way Diana was. Then had the nerve to say the Palace had hit him below the belt in their response to his book. I just heard this on the news. He is stirring up as much trouble as he can and is not looking good imho.

He is a horrible, spiteful man and was notorious as such long before this book.

Yes, it’s all sensational stuff, but I think more reflective people will judge him harshly for his grudge-bearing and calculated spite.

His agenda suits some but I roll my eyes when people overlook his reputation just because his attacks please the

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:09

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 13:57

William was a child and in boarding school. Of course he knew some things. But he was full boarding. Charles and Diana had joint custody.

So William only spent 9 weeks of every years holidays with Diana, plus visits to sports days and school events, and for afternoon tea.

Let's get 15 year old Williams knowledge of Diana's inner emotional state in perspective here.

So you know better than her 15 year old son?

Good luck trying to sell that line!

foxylady2 · Yesterday 14:10

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:03

This is a weird take.

As if the SG just goes on caviar and champagne.

Most of it will go to pay wages. I see the RF as a British industry employing thousands of people, some of whom are highly specialised craftspeople, and in maintaining historic buildings. I like that.

As for the pathetic politics of envy stance, iI despise it.

Just - as a modest gourmand myself, I can only dream of the sort of fine food and wine they merrily quaff, although I suspect even that must become rather boring when you have it all the time.

At least Margaret channelled her passion for ballet into something beyond mere consumption, both as a patron and a genuine connoisseur. I saw her at the Royal Ballet many years ago no Royal Box for her; she was sitting in the Dress Circle with friends.

William, meanwhile, apparently prefers the modern royal equivalent: Netflix and chill. And with Taylor Swift providing the soundtrack, we can finally say goodbye to the Renaissance Man.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:23

foxylady2 · Yesterday 14:10

Just - as a modest gourmand myself, I can only dream of the sort of fine food and wine they merrily quaff, although I suspect even that must become rather boring when you have it all the time.

At least Margaret channelled her passion for ballet into something beyond mere consumption, both as a patron and a genuine connoisseur. I saw her at the Royal Ballet many years ago no Royal Box for her; she was sitting in the Dress Circle with friends.

William, meanwhile, apparently prefers the modern royal equivalent: Netflix and chill. And with Taylor Swift providing the soundtrack, we can finally say goodbye to the Renaissance Man.

One thing I can agree with you about is the lack of obvious intellectual interests in either of the princes. I say “obvious “ because neither of us knows, but they do seem happier on the footie and pop concert scene. Nothing wrong with those - but I think it should be balanced by more serious enthusiasms.

I think this is a shame. Their father was/is intellectual and loves music, architecture, drama, art etc. I hope PW will develop some of these cultural interests as he ages.

Dorothyperky · Yesterday 14:30

Just to add Princess Diana was a grade 8 pianist. Not the thicky some people like to paint her.

Gall10 · Yesterday 14:35

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2026 16:30

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simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:36

I do agree with you there. Kate & William seem devoid of intellectual curiosity, when they have such avenues open to them they seem disinterested in the arts, literature, opera, ballet. What a waste. Not sure if it's true but I saw somewhere that William doesn't read books either.

He is obsessed with Aston Villa FC, she obviously loves tennis but it all seems to stop there.
Charles puts them to shame on that score. He is a decent artist, and interested in architecture, philosophy, the environment so he makes a good stab at being curious

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 14:40

Dorothyperky · Yesterday 14:30

Just to add Princess Diana was a grade 8 pianist. Not the thicky some people like to paint her.

She was also an amazing dancer who wanted to be a ballerina but was too tall.

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 14:41

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:36

I do agree with you there. Kate & William seem devoid of intellectual curiosity, when they have such avenues open to them they seem disinterested in the arts, literature, opera, ballet. What a waste. Not sure if it's true but I saw somewhere that William doesn't read books either.

He is obsessed with Aston Villa FC, she obviously loves tennis but it all seems to stop there.
Charles puts them to shame on that score. He is a decent artist, and interested in architecture, philosophy, the environment so he makes a good stab at being curious

Every time I go to the theatre and see the empty Royal Box I think they don't really deserve the access as they don't use it.

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:42

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:36

I do agree with you there. Kate & William seem devoid of intellectual curiosity, when they have such avenues open to them they seem disinterested in the arts, literature, opera, ballet. What a waste. Not sure if it's true but I saw somewhere that William doesn't read books either.

He is obsessed with Aston Villa FC, she obviously loves tennis but it all seems to stop there.
Charles puts them to shame on that score. He is a decent artist, and interested in architecture, philosophy, the environment so he makes a good stab at being curious

And Harry and M. No evidence of art gallery visits or anything but pop concerts. Apparently Charles had to suggest the music for their wedding- neither of the numpties had the first clue.

Question: why did you mention only W & C? Do you dislike them?

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:42

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 14:41

Every time I go to the theatre and see the empty Royal Box I think they don't really deserve the access as they don't use it.

Yes and there's people an attendance there would mean the world to them

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 14:44

Prince Charles founded the Princes Foundation, now the Kings Foundation in Shoreditch which encourages the traditional arts.

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:46

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:42

And Harry and M. No evidence of art gallery visits or anything but pop concerts. Apparently Charles had to suggest the music for their wedding- neither of the numpties had the first clue.

Question: why did you mention only W & C? Do you dislike them?

Because I know less about their lack of curiousity than William and Kate as they have been in the US and are private citizens without the access and huge benefits that members of the royal family have like W&K
Whether I like them or not is an irrelevance to my observation

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 15:02

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 14:41

Every time I go to the theatre and see the empty Royal Box I think they don't really deserve the access as they don't use it.

They might not have free choice to attend very much.

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 15:03

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 14:09

So you know better than her 15 year old son?

Good luck trying to sell that line!

You think a 15 year old spending a maximum of nine weeks a year with a parent knows exactly that parents emotional state? Wow

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 15:09

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 10:49

Virginia was hounded to death by the palace and by some royalists who kept posting lies about Virginia, over and over again. Some of the lies and comments posted were disgusting. I would hope the royalists involved would be ashamed of themselves, but sadly I think not as I still see some constantly posting lies over other people.

I actually think both the palace and members of the public should be held accountable.

Not sure how many "royalists" were hounding Virginia in Australia or how the palace would have hounded her there or how the palace ever hounded her, but I suspect the main trigger for her suicide was spliting up from her husband, whom she accused of beating her, and her estrangement from her children, whom she hadn't seen for some time. She was also clearly on a downward spiral as evidenced in the strange car accident that she apparently had just before her suicide. She'd literally just been in hospital but no one there noticed that her mental health was in a dire state. Nor did her brother, who has appointed himself as her spokesman and who was staying with her at the time she died, seem to notice she needed help.

foxylady2 · Yesterday 15:11

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 15:02

They might not have free choice to attend very much.

No, I’m not having that! Many years ago I was in the rear stalls at the ENO to see The Magic Flute, I think. Just as the curtain was going up and the lights went down, I heard a noise in the box behind me. I looked around and there was Salman Rushdie with his minders. At the interval they disappeared, only to reappear when the lights went down for the second half.

In her varied sojourns here, Meghan was made Patron of the National Theatre. You would have thought Edward, given his apparent earlier interest in the arts, could have cultivated this connection rather more. They all had the opportunity to experience some of the world’s finest productions and artists, and to sup on intellectual pleasures and cultural interests that most people could only dream of. Instead - meh...

They don't go because they don't want to.

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 15:14

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 15:03

You think a 15 year old spending a maximum of nine weeks a year with a parent knows exactly that parents emotional state? Wow

You think a complete stranger who has nothing to do with a particular individual who died 29 years knows the emotional state of that individual 29 years ago?

Yeah, I think a 15-year-old son who was apparently so mature he didn't need any particular care and attention when his mother died knows the emotional state of his mother, even if he doesn't see her that often, far better than an online rando, especially one with very fixed opinions and a grudge.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 15:19

@foxylady2 I’m with you there. William didn’t attend a single world cup
match did he? It was his holidays! They are very part time.

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 15:23

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 15:09

Not sure how many "royalists" were hounding Virginia in Australia or how the palace would have hounded her there or how the palace ever hounded her, but I suspect the main trigger for her suicide was spliting up from her husband, whom she accused of beating her, and her estrangement from her children, whom she hadn't seen for some time. She was also clearly on a downward spiral as evidenced in the strange car accident that she apparently had just before her suicide. She'd literally just been in hospital but no one there noticed that her mental health was in a dire state. Nor did her brother, who has appointed himself as her spokesman and who was staying with her at the time she died, seem to notice she needed help.

Honestly even this comment is vile blaming her siblings for not stopping her from committing suicide. And in doing so repeating suicide myths.

Virginias friend said she was being bullied online. Certainly some of the horrendous comments on mn about her would be incredibly difficult for her or anyone connected to her, to read. Lots of lies, lots of rape and sex trafficking myths. All to defend a rich royal man who will never face justice.

I would be seriously ashamed of myself if I had posted some of the comments that were posted on mn.

OneLilacHedgehog · Yesterday 15:24

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 15:19

@foxylady2 I’m with you there. William didn’t attend a single world cup
match did he? It was his holidays! They are very part time.

And never women's football
Same as Catherine, never the women's tennis.
Only men's sport counts.

bluegreygreen · Yesterday 15:26

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 14:36

I do agree with you there. Kate & William seem devoid of intellectual curiosity, when they have such avenues open to them they seem disinterested in the arts, literature, opera, ballet. What a waste. Not sure if it's true but I saw somewhere that William doesn't read books either.

He is obsessed with Aston Villa FC, she obviously loves tennis but it all seems to stop there.
Charles puts them to shame on that score. He is a decent artist, and interested in architecture, philosophy, the environment so he makes a good stab at being curious

Catherine is interested in art and design, and has visited several small textile companies.

She is patron of the V&A, and curated a 'Makers and Creators' display in their East Storehouse.
I wonder if she will eventually follow on the work of the King in supporting traditional crafts.

simpsonthecat · Yesterday 15:27

Good. She needs to expand on that.

Roxring · Yesterday 15:29

Catherine had been spotted at the theatre several times with her kids and with her mum, all incognito visits, not using the Royal Box as she is attending in a private capacity,

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