I never said you made those comments, so I'm not sure why you've interpreted it that way. My comment was a general one about how, when people start nitpicking trivial, normal things, it crosses the line into vitriol. You chose to respond to my comment by saying it is about her as a person and Meghan should be "pulled up" because she's a liar and a hypocrite. I then brought the discussion back to my original point by using examples of the sort of comments I was referring to. I never said those comments came from you.
Also, "flogs clothes" isn't really accurate. That phrase usually implies selling something aggressively or even illegally. She has a website with affiliate links where people can choose to buy items if they want. That's quite different.
As for the clothes, linen is one of the best fabrics to wear in hot weather because it's lightweight and breathable. It naturally creases when you sit down or move around. That's not the same as wearing messy clothes. Criticising someone for wearing a fabric that naturally wrinkles just seems like looking for something to complain about.
You also brought up them leaving the UK and the issue of skin colour, but my comment didn't mention either of those things. If you want to debate those topics, you'd be better off responding to the people who actually raised them, not me.
Finally, I'm not trying to make you out to be objectionable. I'm discussing the point you've made. Do you genuinely think a woman should be "pulled up" because her linen clothes have natural creases? Or that a parent should be criticised because a child has slightly messy hair after playing? Those are ordinary, everyday things. Once people start treating them as evidence of some character flaw, that's when it stops being fair criticism and starts becoming nitpicking and nasty.