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So why is Harry safe but not Meghan and the kids?

219 replies

canthavetoomanylights · 10/07/2026 07:58

Sorry if this is obvious/already discussed.. I can’t find it.

Im just wondering why Harry can do these ‘engagements’ but his wife and kids can’t step in the country.

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Sophiecunninghamsfinger · 10/07/2026 19:45

LipglossAndLies · 10/07/2026 19:41

Ignoring the questions I asked you...clearly not interested in having a discussion then.

I already told you that yes I think a sweaty unironed mess can be talked about if they are in the fashion industry. You just didn't seem to see it . My previous post. I'm surprised you didn't say - let's leave it here shall we? 😉

LipglossAndLies · 10/07/2026 19:51

Sophiecunninghamsfinger · 10/07/2026 19:45

I already told you that yes I think a sweaty unironed mess can be talked about if they are in the fashion industry. You just didn't seem to see it . My previous post. I'm surprised you didn't say - let's leave it here shall we? 😉

Where are the pictures of her being sweaty mess? I certainly haven't seen them.

If you iron linen then go sit in a car to travel somewhere get out you will have creases in it. Are you expecting her to whip out an iron in the car? Yesterday in the video of William playing mini golf you can see lots of creases in his suit jacket....shall we call him an unironed mess he is the future king after all can't he afford an iron...except most people would say well thats just normal it happens that some creases will appear on a suit jacket. 😉

SpiritofaPanda · 10/07/2026 19:52

LipglossAndLies · 10/07/2026 18:35

Do you think its okay to be nitpicking a woman over their child having slighlty messy hair after they have been running about?

Do you think its okay to nitpicking a woman because im got weather she wore linen clothes that naturally creases and say things like doesn't she own iron? Ignoring the fact thst the material naturally creases easily especially sitting down.

How do you know the little one had been running around before every picture?

Batcats · 10/07/2026 19:55

LipglossAndLies · 10/07/2026 19:51

Where are the pictures of her being sweaty mess? I certainly haven't seen them.

If you iron linen then go sit in a car to travel somewhere get out you will have creases in it. Are you expecting her to whip out an iron in the car? Yesterday in the video of William playing mini golf you can see lots of creases in his suit jacket....shall we call him an unironed mess he is the future king after all can't he afford an iron...except most people would say well thats just normal it happens that some creases will appear on a suit jacket. 😉

I'm so lost how we've managed to get on a thread that was discussing the security and safety of Harry and his family to somehow an in depth discussion of what fabrics crease the most.

12234m · 10/07/2026 19:57

The King and Queen have hosted Harry, Meghan and the children.

Was the sweaty mess when Meghan wore the brown outfit?

diddl · 10/07/2026 19:58

Im just wondering why Harry can do these ‘engagements’ but his wife and kids can’t step in the country.

Well apparantely they can all be in the country as they have all visited Charles & Camilla at Highgrove today.

Noodledog · 10/07/2026 20:05

So it turns they can visit without the cavalcades of armed security. Hopefully this means that in the case of future visits, all the ridiculous drama from the Sussexes can be avoided.

Sophiecunninghamsfinger · 10/07/2026 20:07

LipglossAndLies · 10/07/2026 19:51

Where are the pictures of her being sweaty mess? I certainly haven't seen them.

If you iron linen then go sit in a car to travel somewhere get out you will have creases in it. Are you expecting her to whip out an iron in the car? Yesterday in the video of William playing mini golf you can see lots of creases in his suit jacket....shall we call him an unironed mess he is the future king after all can't he afford an iron...except most people would say well thats just normal it happens that some creases will appear on a suit jacket. 😉

Here you go 😉

So why is Harry safe but not Meghan and the kids?
So why is Harry safe but not Meghan and the kids?
So why is Harry safe but not Meghan and the kids?
IcedPurple · 10/07/2026 20:21

diddl · 10/07/2026 19:58

Im just wondering why Harry can do these ‘engagements’ but his wife and kids can’t step in the country.

Well apparantely they can all be in the country as they have all visited Charles & Camilla at Highgrove today.

And just as I said, none of us were any the wiser that they were in the country.

This meeting could have been kept completely private too, but the King issued a statement in order, I suspect, to put an end to the weeks of 'leaking' and 'hinting' which we all know wasn't coming from his side.

Cairneyes · 10/07/2026 20:27

And where were the hoards of “ vitriolic” mumsnetters waving placards denouncing creased linen and tangled hair?

simpsonthecat · 10/07/2026 20:31

How lovely Charles has met Meghan, Harry and the children. Well done him, and I don't praise him as a matter of course.
He did the right thing here.
I can't be bothered to read criticisms about creased clothes or tangled hair on a little one, we all suffer in this extreme heat in this country as we're not used to it. And to highlight sweaty patches and creases in this heat says a lot about how desperate you are to do down this meeting.
Well done Charles. I hope this meeting meant a lot to all of them. I am sure it did.

Fannyannie · 10/07/2026 20:40

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simpsonthecat · 10/07/2026 20:42

Could you link to where you know that?

Why do they have to hide the children? That sounds a bit off

Batcats · 10/07/2026 20:48

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You do realise it's not a dictatorship. That the King has nothing to do with Invictus or whether Meghan appears in public and that actually whether she does or not is going to have little impact on him anyway.

And as for finances. I can imagine the King has told his 41 year old son who lives in a 9 bedroom mansion in one of the most expensive areas in the USA he's responsible for sorting out his own mess.

IAmATorturedPoet · 10/07/2026 20:52

I expect the meeting was very awkward for all concerned, but the private meeting has been had. KC and QC are free now to crack on without there being anymore drama and shenanigans coming from across the pond, right?

Sophiecunninghamsfinger · 10/07/2026 21:01

simpsonthecat · 10/07/2026 20:31

How lovely Charles has met Meghan, Harry and the children. Well done him, and I don't praise him as a matter of course.
He did the right thing here.
I can't be bothered to read criticisms about creased clothes or tangled hair on a little one, we all suffer in this extreme heat in this country as we're not used to it. And to highlight sweaty patches and creases in this heat says a lot about how desperate you are to do down this meeting.
Well done Charles. I hope this meeting meant a lot to all of them. I am sure it did.

The sweaty patches were nothing to do with the meeting today. What a silly idea 😂 It was lipgloss that said she'd never seen any so I enlightened her. Easy peasy nice and cheesy 🤭

diddl · 10/07/2026 21:03

Has Harry already done his promotion for next years invictus games?

simpsonthecat · 10/07/2026 21:09

Why would anyone highlight sweaty patches, I thought we were all women together and don't shame hot weather sweaty patches.

BemusedAmerican · 10/07/2026 21:19

The person who keeps bringing it up is Lipgloss.

Did Charles give them a Highgrove hamper?

upinaballoon · 10/07/2026 21:22

IAmATorturedPoet · 10/07/2026 20:52

I expect the meeting was very awkward for all concerned, but the private meeting has been had. KC and QC are free now to crack on without there being anymore drama and shenanigans coming from across the pond, right?

Not necessarily but it might have been a step in a sensible direction. Private, children's faces shouldn't have been taken so they can be sent all the way round the world, and away from William and Catherine's patch. We'll see if H and M keep their mouths shut about it.

Whaleandsnail6 · 10/07/2026 21:23

PurpleDisco · 10/07/2026 12:53

@HelenaWilson yes Spare does qualify as ‘well documented’ as a book can’t simply be published full of outright lies! Otherwise, anybody could write anything about anyone which would end in lawsuits. There can be white lies which aren’t seen as damaging or truths can be embellished for book purposes but outright lies are a big NO! The core purpose of each chapter of a biography has to be truth.

But there is at least one proven large lie in Spare and Harry is too self obsessed to care that can easily be disproven...he lied about where he was when the queen mum died, claiming he was alone at school and told by staff. No doubt to try and show how uncaring his father is and how forgotten he is by his family. The reality is that he was away on holiday with his dad and brother when queen mum died. With photo evidence

If he can lie about something so easily proven, what else has he exaggerated or lied about to suit his narrative?

ShanghaiDiva · 10/07/2026 21:39

Noodledog · 10/07/2026 20:05

So it turns they can visit without the cavalcades of armed security. Hopefully this means that in the case of future visits, all the ridiculous drama from the Sussexes can be avoided.

Indeed. So much drama over nothing. They are not working royals so no need for any public appearances and the family could enjoy time together without all this ridiculous fuss over private security.

jeffgoldblum · Yesterday 00:15

simpsonthecat · 10/07/2026 21:09

Why would anyone highlight sweaty patches, I thought we were all women together and don't shame hot weather sweaty patches.

Clearly the poster was simply providing proof , when it was declared that there was no evidence of Meghan looking sweaty !!
there is unfortunately! , in this case denial brings forth images that may have been left to rest.

KingOfPoundbury · Yesterday 01:55

One ponders this oneself.
It is amost as if little H is trying to create an issue that doe not exist.

Usgirl2096 · Yesterday 03:53

If you have kids then you would know that the greater concern is the kids. So Prince Harry is willing to chance himself but leaves the kids with behind with the mom.

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