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YOU season 4 *Spoiler alert*

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Newnamenewname109870 · 11/02/2023 17:42

I can’t see a thread for this

Binged it all! I know part 2 is coming later.

anyone surprised?

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SnottyLottie · 11/02/2023 17:44

I was surprised at the full frontal male nudity with Prince Albert included 🤣

Proudofitbabe · 11/02/2023 23:45

Just finished! Are we talking spoilers? Probs need the title amending (no idea how?) so I'll talk more coded until then!

I actually did end up surprised by the "You" reveal, and am annoyed at myself as in hindsight the signs were all there!

I think this whole season is like a spoof of itself, esp the last episode which was borderline comedy. The characters are beyond ridiculous, even by You standards! I've found the love interest Kate incredibly grating, but then Love and Beck were annoying too. Joe has poor taste!

I think it's interesting they've changed the angle of the "You" person but without that insane stalker element the show is missing the thing that made it so good. It's not scary. Joe isn't threatening.

Overall I've enjoyed it and will be tuning into part 2, but I can't say I care too much where it ends up.

Side note - Penn Badgley said in an interview that he asked to tone down the sex scenes out of respect for his wife, and wow you can really tell! I far prefer it, lots of S3 was so OTT.

LittleMrsPerfect · 11/02/2023 23:59

Do you think there will be a season 5? I’m trying to find out in order to predict the ending?

@Proudofitbabe I don’t think it’s missing the thing that made it good. My interpretation is Joe needs an obsession he needs to stalk YOU but in this series he still has an obsession with YOU but for a different reason. He is also trying to prove he is a good person? There is also the mystery of who YOU is.

It is very comical but is that the point? Thats why the characters are targets.

Proudofitbabe · 12/02/2023 00:07

@LittleMrsPerfect I get the angle they've gone for, but it doesn't grab me the same. The fear factor isn't there. The show is about Joe and it's not the same when HE's the hunted.

If they're replacing threat with mystery I wonder where it'll go in part 2 now we do know the identity of YOU.

I don't mind comedy or for tossers to die, but it's just a bit mindless. Earlier seasons didn't have this parody feel.

Enjoyable, just not the YOU I came to love!

Proudofitbabe · 12/02/2023 00:08

Don't think there will be a season 5 unless they go back to the nutty stalker format and repeat it in another location

UpToonGirl · 12/02/2023 11:27

Just binged it, found it very watchable but I don't think it's as good as the previous seasons. The 'rich' characters do feel like a parody and it's distracting.

Tbh I thought it was all going to be Joe and he was having a breakdown and blackouts because what are the chances he would get caught up in another serial killer situation after Love? Joe walked straight into a job where on the first night out he's been framed by a murderer...appreciate You is not supposed to be realistic but that's possibly a step too far. Especially as we already had to accept that the guy hired to track and kill him just offered him a new identity in exchange for £.

That being said I did enjoy it and am looking forward to part 2.

Newnamenewname109870 · 12/02/2023 12:41

MUMSNET HQ can we please add spoilers to the title?

I agree with most of the points here and also wondered occasionally whether it was him blacking out also.

I found it way less scary now Joe is developing as a person - also all those people really are hideous! So it doesn’t feel too terrible (although of course it is 😂) at the same I find it more interesting that he is. A part of me expects him to go back to being bad though.

I had a couple of suspects and actually I did guess shortly before he was revealed! But I only guessed because I thought the guy Adam was saying no to (where Phoebe caught him) well I thought that was you know who! So that made me thing ahhh. Of course that guy wasn’t him, it was just a server! But I had guessed by that point.

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UpToonGirl · 12/02/2023 20:26

@Newnamenewname109870 I agree it was scarier in so many ways when Joe was just a stalker who occasionally killed in pursuit of Beck, or in S2 for Love. I feel like it's become much more murder focused(and less realistic)than stalker/obsession but because they made all the victims awful it's not such an emotional punch when they get offed.

I kind of want Joe to get caught and go through mandatory therapy to unpick why he is the way he is.

PenguinsCantFly · 13/02/2023 10:23

Binged it in one sitting...not quite got the same feel as the first few seasons, but I still enjoyed it.

I found the location connections amusing - this meme from Netflix World made me smile 😁

YOU season 4 *Spoiler alert*
HunterHearstHelmsley · 13/02/2023 11:29

I knew who "You" was straightaway. I thought it was quite obvious. I wonder how part 2 will pan out. "You" obviously has to die.

FT123456 · 13/02/2023 20:59

I finished watching the new season yesterday. While I did enjoy it... it's not what I was expecting, definitely preferred the previous seasons. But I get why they have changed it otherwise I guess it would have become a bit repetitive same story different city. I will be watching part 2 when it comes out though. Pen Badley plays his part so well.

newnamethanks · 14/02/2023 08:46

I reckon YOU is Jessica Fletcher. She's all that's missing from this. Or Miss Marple. Or even Daniel Craig. Poor.

FearTheWankingDead · 17/02/2023 23:24

FT123456 · 13/02/2023 20:59

I finished watching the new season yesterday. While I did enjoy it... it's not what I was expecting, definitely preferred the previous seasons. But I get why they have changed it otherwise I guess it would have become a bit repetitive same story different city. I will be watching part 2 when it comes out though. Pen Badley plays his part so well.

It’s good they didn’t repeat the same story again but then I don’t know if this change works.

I don’t really like the Kate character.

LikeTearsInRain · 18/02/2023 00:03

Doesn’t feel like You at all. Has turned from the tense psych thriller it was into some twee murder mystery thing now. Don’t like any of the new characters and Joe has become stale.

FearTheWankingDead · 19/02/2023 09:14

I am watching series 4 episode 4 now. It’s not getting any better. The actress that plays Kate is so wooden it’s ruining it. The portrayal of English people is a bit cringe. I think I will give up.

Xrays · 19/02/2023 09:25

LikeTearsInRain · 18/02/2023 00:03

Doesn’t feel like You at all. Has turned from the tense psych thriller it was into some twee murder mystery thing now. Don’t like any of the new characters and Joe has become stale.

Same. I’m trying to keep on with it but so far I’m falling asleep 😴 boring.

category12 · 19/02/2023 10:28

I've enjoyed it but it's basically ripping off the Knives Out/Glass Onion revival of the murder mystery so far.

I think they had to take it in a different direction tho, otherwise it would just be retreading. (And series 3 was getting very silly).

I'm looking forward to the next episodes tho.

Moofart · 19/02/2023 12:23

I couldn't get into this series at all. Feels like a completely different show.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 19/02/2023 15:32

I stopped watching it as was not enjoying it at all. Did not seem like reality to me. Was also shocked at your man's penis on show. Could not finish it.

Xrays · 19/02/2023 15:56

Moofart · 19/02/2023 12:23

I couldn't get into this series at all. Feels like a completely different show.

I agree. You can definitely tell PB has pulled it back from what it was.

bellamountain · 20/02/2023 21:40

It's awful, just watching the croquet scene. I'm going to give up.

MissJam · 23/02/2023 17:26

I really liked it and can’t wait for part 2! 🙈

I guessed who You was quite early on but surprised I was actually right!

Interesting to read re sex scenes - I mentioned this to my OH that it seemed to have toned down from the tossing off in bushes days - I’m pleased about that as find sex scenes incredibly awkward!

meow1989 · 23/02/2023 17:44

I quite liked it as long as I didn't try to take it too seriously! I'm interested to see how it goes from here

Fwiw, I don't think that the revealed You is You Grin

Prinnny · 23/02/2023 18:55

I’ve binged it, nearly gave up after 2 episodes but glad I stuck it out. Agree it’s like a completely different show, almost a comedy now! The sex boudoir with the Willy candles?! Kate is unlikeable, I think the whole friendship group bar Phoebe is! Maybe she’ll end up the hero?

MissJam · 23/02/2023 20:16

meow1989 · 23/02/2023 17:44

I quite liked it as long as I didn't try to take it too seriously! I'm interested to see how it goes from here

Fwiw, I don't think that the revealed You is You Grin

Me neither tbh I have a sneaking suspicion it is they who gave him the book in the first episode… can I say that? 🙈

Anyway - I really like looking at Rhys so excited for part 2 😂