if you are talking about Jill, she has never met anyone and just doesnt want kids.
I only "know" COTS.
Giraffes if your cousins mummy ever wanted to talk to/email someone with a 10 yr old surrogate baby she is welcome to speak to me. It can be very lonely!
nnibnabs - in my experience with COTS and all the posts on their boards, its extremely rare/unheard of to ASK someone, you can hint, put the word out f you will, but 99.9% of the time the surrogate OFFERS to carry your child.
My friend offered out of the blue, I have just supported someone local to me through it (and i have the flowers to prove it LOL) and she had the same, her friend saw her going thru years of treatment and offered.
Its fascinating, me and hubby are glued to it!