COTS is childlessness oversome through surrogacy.
Intended parents join and are matched with surrogates. As I say the surro choses.
I joined them for the legal support and for contact really with other people in my boat.
I do feel a bit defensive though, like when someone commented about not letting it go. when someone offers you, of their own free will your lifes dream, it cannot and should not be snatched back. I want to hug AManda, but she chose to do it.
Its amazing what she has done.