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Addicted to surrogacy, Channel 4

156 replies

Meglet · 09/03/2009 21:03

Anyone else watching?

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AnybodyHomeMcFly · 09/03/2009 21:57

I just couldn't do this. If I was Amanda I would hate to hand baby Edward over to olga and cold fish man. I know they've picked pretty extreme cases for tv but as I'm 36 wks preg this is hard to watch. Max respect to those who can help childless couples this way tho.

AnybodyHomeMcFly · 09/03/2009 21:57

I just couldn't do this. If I was Amanda I would hate to hand baby Edward over to olga and cold fish man. I know they've picked pretty extreme cases for tv but as I'm 36 wks preg this is hard to watch. Max respect to those who can help childless couples this way tho.

NotAnOtter · 09/03/2009 21:58

pretty baby boy

QOD · 09/03/2009 21:59

COTS is childlessness oversome through surrogacy.
Intended parents join and are matched with surrogates. As I say the surro choses.
I joined them for the legal support and for contact really with other people in my boat.

I do feel a bit defensive though, like when someone commented about not letting it go. when someone offers you, of their own free will your lifes dream, it cannot and should not be snatched back. I want to hug AManda, but she chose to do it.
Its amazing what she has done.

NuckingFuts · 09/03/2009 22:01

She is considering having a 2nd child for Ogre and fishman??

QOD · 09/03/2009 22:02

there you go, bet the tv has focussed purely on the bad bits.

expatinscotland · 09/03/2009 22:02

Sorry, but after watching this, I'm sort of on the fence with how I feel about this whole surrogacy thing.

I really am.

nnibnabs · 09/03/2009 22:02

Saying and doing are 2 different things, but I would love to do it for the right couple.

bringonthetrumpets · 09/03/2009 22:03

gosh, kind of regret putting that on. poor dh is all emotional and we're both very with the russian and how cold she is. we both decided we really like amanda though. she's definitely channeling alanis morissette.

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 09/03/2009 22:03

My sister is having real problems TTC atm. She has (jokingly I think/hope) asked if I'd be a surrogate Mum for her. Blimey - what a question to be asked. I'm just hoping beyond hope that she manages to conceive.

DebInAustria · 09/03/2009 22:03

Amanda came over so well, like you say QOD - she has given them their lifes dream -and what a lovely baby.

I think women who do this are fantastic

expatinscotland · 09/03/2009 22:03

Is this right, though?

It's hard to say.

I'd do it, but only for my own daughters, with their eggs.

expatinscotland · 09/03/2009 22:04

Is Amanda's baby biologically hers?

DebInAustria · 09/03/2009 22:05

Iwish - I think you should ask your sister whether she was joking!

DebInAustria · 09/03/2009 22:06

don't think so Expat

QOD · 09/03/2009 22:07

Ok, i have it from the horses mouth that a lot has been taken out of context
Makes good Tv doesnt it!

bringonthetrumpets · 09/03/2009 22:08

speaking of surrogacy...

check this out

DebInAustria · 09/03/2009 22:08

which horse QOD?

QOD · 09/03/2009 22:09

AMandas baby is host surrogacy, so she carried their baby for them

I know what you mean expat, I coudnt do it, my mum & sister couldnt do it for me and yet a friend could and did.
People have their own reasons, I am sure that some do it for the money, some for the glory and some for pure friendship.

DebInAustria · 09/03/2009 22:10

that article really confused my very tired mind trumpets

AnybodyHomeMcFly · 09/03/2009 22:11

amanda's baby was biologically olga and fishman's. Don't feel it's a question of right and wrong, more whether you have the personality to cope with it.

SlartyBartFast · 09/03/2009 22:12

of coruse qcd,
we need to see the tears, perhaps the coldness/oddness of the russian after all

QOD · 09/03/2009 22:12

neeigh I can't say LOL

Kelsey Grammar children are surrogates, Dennis Quaid has surro twins, Roz, the producer ady from Frasier also has surro baby/ies
A famous ENglish footie player also, plus Sinetta tried but her surro sadly miscarried.

bringonthetrumpets · 09/03/2009 22:12

hah, sorry deb

CrackerNut · 09/03/2009 22:14

I actually found Amanda very rude and quite hostile towards Olga. I wasn't overly keen on Olga either but I think during the day out she was trying to be nice even if it didn't come across the right way.

I definatly couldn't be a surrogate and think anyone who can is amazing really.

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