@somnambule
I couldn't agree more, and you've put into words exactly how I'm feeling and much more eloquently.
You're exactly right about how Stephen is being lauded as the hero in all of this, when it was Stephen who was the driver behind Rachel being written down and ending up getting through by chance.
Rachel promised she'd stick to their pact and she did. She's a woman of integrity. Stephen might have stuck to it in the end, but if she'd left instead of James that would have been in part down to Stephen stirring.
But hey, he's just a wee boy from the Hebrides, and she's some kind of Machiavelian mastermind who would have gone back on her word at the last minute.
You're right, the sexism against a woman who doesn't fit the stereotypes is utterly depressing indeed.