I wasn't talking specifically on Mumsnet, I meant in the media generally - but ok yes, in amongst the criticism of being cold and ruthless there have been people supporting her too.
I've no idea if she is perimenopausal - I speaking generally about women in her stage of life (of which I am also one) who are views as being a bit frumpy and past it, and attract a lot of negativity where a young funky man behaving in exactly the same way gets celebrated for being wonderful.