I’ve been pretty muck OK - just about - with the harping on about the back-stories, but even I have to say that last night it seriously bugged me. I like Brian and Melvyn but we really didn’t need to be told again that they’d had a difficult relationship but this trip had really changed things for them, or that the sisters felt their heart-to-heart had made things easier.
And as for Caroline’s constant refrain about ‘finding herself’ and never having been allowed to do anything as a person, and ‘I’m only a housewife’ who ‘hasn’t been able to find the real me for all these years’ - ENOUGH!!! Thanks to this thread we all know she’s a successful eventer, to the point where she’s deemed worthy of an article in ‘Horse & Hound’, where she even describes herself as ‘prepared, fit, determined’ and with ‘an aim in mind,’ the qualities she needs in eventing. I’m sorry, but I now don’t trust what I’m hearing.
Why not be more honest right at the start and call her ‘amateur horsewomen Caroline’? As it is I’m left feeling - like PP - that all the ‘poor me’ is hiding some stress in her relationship with her rarely-mentioned husband.