pixie I feel your pain there.
I'm not a massive fan of CiN, really that's because we do a lot at work to support our local children's hospice and our fundraising "timetable" does overlap with CiN. We raise £1,000+ every November/December and yet there's always some bright spark who asks why we don't do an event for CiN. Answer: if you want to do it, do it yourself! And of course, they expect it to be done for them so it doesn't get done. I don't have anything at all against the charity per se but it gets ginormous publicity whereas our local children's hospice gets nothing like that so I would rather we raised money for them and of course, we can see exactly where the money is going too.
Sorry, rant over.