'AFAIK the earlier an epi is given the higher the chances of a cascade of interventions so it really is in the Mums best interest to delay it as long as possible.'
I know what is in my best interest. I'm not 'Mum', I'm a human being who knows her own mind and body.
I know just how much pain I can cope with and when I go beyond that I know something is wrong.
And both times I felt I needed one, my brain had a feeling, it was situations where I really did.