Don't re-think, ng. If you want it, keep harping on it till you get it.
Don't be fobbed off.
I got fobbed off twice but got there in the end.
With DD1, I started harping away. The baby was back to front and had her hand up cupping her head above her ear. My first baby.
I wound up with H-F forceps.
I did have my second child with no pain relief.
Thank fuck that useless MW is gone!
Just wanted to drink tea and chat and text.