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Help me find a really nice dress for new fellas work do!

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amibeingaknob · 30/10/2025 09:12

So I have a new boyfriend, and I meeting his colleagues at a christmas do on 12th December - so I have time. I want to look good of course, not show him up!

Im 51, BMI 23, curvy - I have massive boobs (34gg), slim waist with flat tum, but
very chunky arms and legs that I like covered. He loves me in dresses, so I think id like to wear a dress. A big issue is shoes, I never know what to wear. Flats with a midi dress make my calves look enormous - so i cheat and wear knee high boots. But not all dresses look good with them do they? Id wear a pair of black shiny knee high boots with a slight heel if I had to make the look work. Id rather that than a pair of high heels.

Anyway, any ideas? Im thinking something slinky, shiny, velvety???

I like this a lot but what footwear? Open to all suggestions. Christina Hendricks X Joanie - Neroli Puff Sleeve Velvet Dress | Vintage-Inspired Scarlett Midi Dress | Joanie

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LittleJustice · 31/10/2025 14:35

Black pleather is terrible, red dress and burgundy dress both lovely 😍

Sixtygoingonthirty · 31/10/2025 19:19

Not helpful with a dress but I find black ankle boots with a small heel (western style?) go with most things. I’m bigger so wear with black tights.

MissFancyDay · 31/10/2025 23:50

Late to the party but the Christina dress is gorgeous and you'll get loads of wear out of it.

deeahgwitch · 01/11/2025 08:26

I’ll swop you my skinny ankles for your size 10 figure with boobs @amibeingaknob😀

amibeingaknob · 01/11/2025 08:39

I would LOVE to wear the shoe boot, or ankle boot look with dresses. But I have chunky ankles and calves and it would look shit. deeahgwitch careful what you wish for! lol

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hcee19 · 01/11/2025 09:41

Wear a jumpsuit with wedge shoes. Wedges come in many different styles and they start with a fairly flat wedge and go upto ridiculous heights that l can only dream of wearing...They are very comfortable and you are less lightly to trip in them compared to heels. Whatever you decide, enjoy your evening you sound very excited and l hope all goes well...

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amibeingaknob · 01/11/2025 09:45

hcee19 · 01/11/2025 09:41

Wear a jumpsuit with wedge shoes. Wedges come in many different styles and they start with a fairly flat wedge and go upto ridiculous heights that l can only dream of wearing...They are very comfortable and you are less lightly to trip in them compared to heels. Whatever you decide, enjoy your evening you sound very excited and l hope all goes well...

If i found a jumpsuit, Id wear it with flats for sure. I can never find one to fit me. I think I have a weirdly long body. My legs are 34 inch, but I still seem to have a camel toe, even it LTS ones. So their 36 inch are too long in leg but Im still eating them.

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Menocandoone · 01/11/2025 15:45

I too am tall, same dress size, large chested and have a weirdly long body. LTS jumpsuits also give me camel toe! But have a look at Onjenu jumpsuits, I’ve got a couple from there and they fit great.

AdoraBell · 01/11/2025 18:47

I like the dark green velvet dress, that would work the black boots. Hope you find something that works, and enjoy the event.

Viviennemary · 01/11/2025 20:17

becs12131 · 31/10/2025 12:57

Nadine Merabi Dresses! Gorgeous Gorgeous dresses and high quality

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They are absolutely dreadful. Would anybody actually wear these and not expect eyes ro roll. Or is it just me.

Menocandoone · 01/11/2025 20:32

Viviennemary · 01/11/2025 20:17

They are absolutely dreadful. Would anybody actually wear these and not expect eyes ro roll. Or is it just me.

It’s just you.

MrsNathanDrake · 01/11/2025 20:33

amibeingaknob · 30/10/2025 09:12

So I have a new boyfriend, and I meeting his colleagues at a christmas do on 12th December - so I have time. I want to look good of course, not show him up!

Im 51, BMI 23, curvy - I have massive boobs (34gg), slim waist with flat tum, but
very chunky arms and legs that I like covered. He loves me in dresses, so I think id like to wear a dress. A big issue is shoes, I never know what to wear. Flats with a midi dress make my calves look enormous - so i cheat and wear knee high boots. But not all dresses look good with them do they? Id wear a pair of black shiny knee high boots with a slight heel if I had to make the look work. Id rather that than a pair of high heels.

Anyway, any ideas? Im thinking something slinky, shiny, velvety???

I like this a lot but what footwear? Open to all suggestions. Christina Hendricks X Joanie - Neroli Puff Sleeve Velvet Dress | Vintage-Inspired Scarlett Midi Dress | Joanie

Joanie are currently offering 30% the Christina Hendricks collection with the code CH30. I’m sorely tempted!! I love Joanie clothes and have loads of them.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 01/11/2025 23:43

Menocandoone · 01/11/2025 20:32

It’s just you.

No, it isn’t. Dated and a bit depressing imo.

StokePotteries · 01/11/2025 23:52

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 31/10/2025 08:14

Okay.

Must admit I don't like the dress though. It looks like something somebody in one of those terrible cheesy Christmas films would wear to go ice skating in and then sing about how much they believe in Father Christmas.

😂😂😂 I can't unsee this scene now.

amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 08:52

Menocandoone · 01/11/2025 15:45

I too am tall, same dress size, large chested and have a weirdly long body. LTS jumpsuits also give me camel toe! But have a look at Onjenu jumpsuits, I’ve got a couple from there and they fit great.

Really? 150 is a lot though. It says the inseams are 31 inches - but they still work for you at 5ft 10? Loving the leopard print one. I do love leopard print.

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amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 08:53

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 01/11/2025 23:43

No, it isn’t. Dated and a bit depressing imo.

I must admit I hate them. Maybe its an age thing, and fashion does go full circle, but they are so Crystal Carrington to me. Not depressing though - but I would look and feel utterly ridiculous. I do notice people like Kim K wearing this style though.

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Mumofoneandone · 02/11/2025 09:05

I wear knee high boots with various longer dresses in the winter as I think they are a really good look.
I found a lovely velvet dress at Yumi last winter, which I have worn a number of times - it's stretchy velvet, so quite forgiving! And quite reasonably priced. I've dressed it up a bit more with the jewellery/footwear I've worn but equally kept it simplier on other occasions!
Yumi Burgundy Velvet Midi Dress | Yumi share.google/cdIABnSv1V0R7jyvn

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 02/11/2025 09:08

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 30/10/2025 16:53

Hot plastic isn't sexy, on any age imo.

Christ, I’d have to peel that dress off me at the end of the evening, and not in a sexy way either!

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 02/11/2025 09:09

amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 08:53

I must admit I hate them. Maybe its an age thing, and fashion does go full circle, but they are so Crystal Carrington to me. Not depressing though - but I would look and feel utterly ridiculous. I do notice people like Kim K wearing this style though.

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Yes! They feel very 80s. A bit Lady Di.

amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 09:13

Mumofoneandone · 02/11/2025 09:05

I wear knee high boots with various longer dresses in the winter as I think they are a really good look.
I found a lovely velvet dress at Yumi last winter, which I have worn a number of times - it's stretchy velvet, so quite forgiving! And quite reasonably priced. I've dressed it up a bit more with the jewellery/footwear I've worn but equally kept it simplier on other occasions!
Yumi Burgundy Velvet Midi Dress | Yumi share.google/cdIABnSv1V0R7jyvn

Thats gorgeous. Do you have big boobs? Im just looking at the seams and wondering bust wise how it would fit on me. V V pretty though.

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amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 09:18

mumofoneandone thanks for the Yumi link. Found this on there. I love it! Yumi Green Velvet Wrap Midi Dress With Contrast Hemline | Yumi. Love the sleeves - very vampires wife.

beansontoast85 thanks but that wouldn't suit me at all. The baggy top would make me look 3 sizes bigger than I am.

Yumi Green Velvet Wrap Midi Dress With Contrast Hemline | Yumi

Go for a flattering festive fit this season in this Yumi Green Velvet Wrap Midi Dress With Contrast Hemline. Shop all new in now.

https://www.yumi.co.uk/products/yumi-green-velvet-wrap-midi-dress-with-contrast-hemline

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Mumofoneandone · 02/11/2025 09:30

amibeingaknob · 02/11/2025 09:13

Thats gorgeous. Do you have big boobs? Im just looking at the seams and wondering bust wise how it would fit on me. V V pretty though.

I've got reasonable size boobs and have unfortunately put some weight on but it still seems ok!!
The green one is great fun - nearly sent you that link as well!!