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Am I nuts to have splurged on this?

306 replies

Peppermintcreamz · 01/05/2025 21:32

Have loved this Self Portrait dress for a while and saw it went 25% off today. It was reduced to €390/£335. I have no formal enough occasion coming up this year for it but I’d love to save it for the next wedding or something appropriate. I’m trying to save a bit more at the moment (for nothing specific) so I can cover it if I dip in to those. There was 1 left in my size and I couldn’t resist. If it fits should I keep it? 😅

Am I nuts to have splurged on this?
Am I nuts to have splurged on this?
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GoodVibesHere · 01/05/2025 21:35

Gosh. What was it that you liked about the outfit? It's quite conservative in style isn't it.

sunshinechaser · 01/05/2025 21:37

If you can afford it, it fits and looks nice on you then yes keep it! I personally don’t love it as I think it looks quite old fashioned and like workwear but that’s just my opinion! If you like it go for it.

Netaporter · 01/05/2025 21:37

I love self portrait atm. I am lusting after a long gold dress that I have no use for either. It is £595 😳 Go for it I say!

Also off to see if it is 25% off 😂

TokyoSushi · 01/05/2025 21:37

Are you in the royal family? If not, send it back! 😃

Eggsinthewhoopsiebasketalready · 01/05/2025 21:38

Looks like an air hostess outfit...

tillyandmilly · 01/05/2025 21:39

It’s beautiful- go for it!

soupyspoon · 01/05/2025 21:40

Have you taken off the label and thrown away the packaging?

Sashya · 01/05/2025 21:44

OP - I think you need to try it on, then try to imagine where you can possibly wear it, and then return it.
It's formal but in a strange way - so I can't really imagine where you'd wear it. Some formal day time tea in a gardens of sorts? Daytime fundraiser lunch for Royal Opera?... etc
I don't think it works for a wedding.

AnnoyedByAlfieBear · 01/05/2025 21:50

TokyoSushi · 01/05/2025 21:37

Are you in the royal family? If not, send it back! 😃

Exactly this!

Idontjetwashthefucker · 01/05/2025 21:53

I'm another who thinks where the heck would you wear that? But we're not you, if you love it then that's all that matters

soupyspoon · 01/05/2025 21:54

Just been looking at the website, some right strange outfits on there. Frumps R us combined with punk.

Very very very thin models too.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 01/05/2025 21:55

Some formal day time tea in a gardens of sorts? Daytime fundraiser lunch for Royal Opera?... etc

Yes, although I think summer wedding as well.

I can never work out if this style is really a dress or if the jacket is separate

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 01/05/2025 21:58

If you love it, feel good in it, foresee that you'll have an event to wear it to one day (soonish...) and no one is going to starve if you keep it - then keep it, and enjoy it.

MoominMai · 01/05/2025 21:58

Playing nice here so what I do like is the beautiful powder blue style colour and the strong silhouette of the piece. I think it’s one of those that you really have to try on to really know if it’ll suit you. My dumpy 5’ frame could never! I am a little intrigued by the design though and would be great once you get it to upload a photo minus face 🙂

HollidayRanger · 01/05/2025 22:00

It looks like something they wear on call the midwife. I would return it.

VictoriaEra2 · 01/05/2025 22:03

It’s gorgeous. I love it

train450desiro · 01/05/2025 22:06

It's classy.

Pieceofpurplesky · 01/05/2025 22:06

Lovely colour but a bit royal nanny in style.

Peppermintcreamz · 01/05/2025 22:06

TokyoSushi · 01/05/2025 21:37

Are you in the royal family? If not, send it back! 😃

Haha, no, but I certainly would like to be if I get to wear clothes like this! 😃

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Tulipsontoast · 01/05/2025 22:10

It’s very Camilla Parker Bowles.

Peppermintcreamz · 01/05/2025 22:12

Netaporter · 01/05/2025 21:37

I love self portrait atm. I am lusting after a long gold dress that I have no use for either. It is £595 😳 Go for it I say!

Also off to see if it is 25% off 😂

Me too! I hope it finds you 🥰

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Peppermintcreamz · 01/05/2025 22:12

Oh dear, I’m 26 lol!

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RipleyJones · 01/05/2025 22:13

It’s gorgeous. Love the colour and stylish fit. If it fits you beautifully keep it, you’ll look fantastic.

SonK · 01/05/2025 22:15

I think it's beautiful, try it on and if you still love it keep it!

I am 30 and would definitely wear clothes like that x

dudsville · 01/05/2025 22:20

It would be hot for a summer wedding, but Cosy for a winter event. It's not my style, but I can see It's value. I much prefer it to standard wedding guest dresses.