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I should have bought the dress - please help.

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ChocoChocoLatte · 21/01/2024 13:27

I foolishly had a wobble and didn't buy the dress and it's now sold out everywhere (I can see) in my size 16/18.

Does anyone have any other ideas for tracking it down. It's a Monsoon bridal dress. Camilla

OR something similar.

Many thanks

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Camilla Embroidered Bridal Dress Ivory | Wedding Dresses | Monsoon UK.

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madeinmanc · 21/01/2024 17:20

Beautiful 😍 I can see why you've set your heart on it.

TeaGinandFags · 21/01/2024 17:33

Mammyloveswine · 21/01/2024 13:30

I'd buy it in the 22 and have it altered by a seamstress.

If you're going to pay a seamstress, why not get her to make it from scratch? John Lewis do lovely fabrics and she'll enjoy the challenge.

ChocoChocoLatte · 21/01/2024 18:06

I maybe should have mentioned I have lost a considerable amount of weight and cannot bring myself to buy a size 22, sorry 😞

This is for a vow renewal. My initial dress was made by a seamstress and it was a horrendous experience the whole way through and I can't even look at our wedding photos without shamefully feeling a little sad. Even though it was a joyous day a considerable length of time ago.

I wouldn't be doing anything at all but due to some rather serious health issues, my kids want us to celebrate.

Thank you all again for your kind held and suggestions.

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Bookgrrrl · 21/01/2024 19:59

Happyher · 21/01/2024 15:02

Keep checking on line in case there’s a return

This! I spent days checking and re-checking for something I really wanted that was sold out in my size and did eventually get it!

ChocoChocoLatte · 21/01/2024 20:15

Nothing showing as returned tonight LOL

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Rosiiee · 21/01/2024 20:23

I’d buy the 14 and the 22. 14 might be just right, if not, get the 22 altered to fit. I bought my wedding dress 2 sizes too big and got it fitted.

hobbledyhoy · 21/01/2024 20:28

I'm sure I was once told that you can get a dress or clothing taken up or down 2 sizes without it altering the cut and fit so as other PP's have suggested I'd go for the 22 and reduce.
I know it's psychological that you don't want to buy that size but just look at it like you're buying additional fabric that allows it to be perfectly adapted to your shape by a skilled professional.
You're not a size 22 you're just buying the dress you love and being clever about it and it's likely to fit you better than just off the leg

FishSpice · 21/01/2024 20:28

Do an email stock alert. I bet it will
come back! Get a friend to
do it too in case you miss the email. Good luck!

I have had a really good success rate this way. People return stuff all the time. And they may restock it anyway.

hobbledyhoy · 21/01/2024 20:28

Peg, not leg 😑

Amara123 · 21/01/2024 20:34

Maybe vinted?

Something like this?

www.vinted.co.uk/items/3510742588-monsoon-wedding-dress

MerCatsSpawScience · 21/01/2024 20:45

What a beautiful dress! I really hope you track one down

MyOodieIsAGoooodie · 21/01/2024 21:04

Keep an eye on Still White (also worth searching for similar on there). The was a search for Monsoon in size 16: https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?size=16&designer=920&page=1&listing=275960

There's also loads of heavily discounted gowns on there. I was so bloody indecisive I bought 3 different dresses and sold them all on here after the wedding.

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https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?size=16&designer=920&page=1&listing=275960

OhCobblers · 21/01/2024 21:28

Sorry not to be able to help but just wanted to say it's stunning.
If I was getting married again Grin I would absolutely wear that!!
Really hope you find your size xx

ChocoChocoLatte · 21/01/2024 21:36

Ooh I feel a bit of a fraud on that page @MyOodieIsAGoooodie because it's not technically a 'wedding' but I am scrolling through none the less.

Thank you !

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LovelyBitOfSquirrrel · 21/01/2024 21:42

@ChocoChocoLatte john Lewis also stock it so keep an eye on their website although not currently in stock in your size

MontagueLeo · 21/01/2024 23:42

Is it worth calling the Bluewater store to see if they have the dress in stock in your size, and if they do whether you could pay over the phone and have them send it to you?

Dixiechickonhols · 21/01/2024 23:45

It’s a stunning dress. It looks quite a generous style I’d buy the 14 and see.

ChocoChocoLatte · 22/01/2024 08:25

@Dixiechickonhols thank you, I'll
give it some thought.

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ChocoChocoLatte · 22/01/2024 08:26

@MontagueLeo I'm worried they'll think am a raving lunatic bride. Maybe I should just organise a round trip shopping session lol

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madeinmanc · 22/01/2024 08:56

By the way, when I opened your link I was prompted to sign up for their emails for a 15% discount code, which I think would be worth it on this dress should it reappear.

HeidiWhole · 22/01/2024 09:16

I live near Bluewater and will be there this week - I can go and plead your case in person if you like Grin

ChocoChocoLatte · 22/01/2024 09:49

You are a doll @HeidiWhole thank you 🙏🏻

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ChocoChocoLatte · 22/01/2024 09:50

@madeinmanc absolutely 💯

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BlueGrey1 · 22/01/2024 11:30

@Mumsnut

I would grab a 14 in case. Monsoon were pretty generous as i recall

This, their sizes are extremely generous

That dress wouldn’t look nice if it was too big

madeinmanc · 22/01/2024 11:45

Also the size 8 the model is wearing looks pretty roomy on her.

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