@lonelysleep Patiently waiting for your picture so that we can all say our opinions, I'm sure you'll graciously accept all our honest truths.
OP, you are STUNNING. That dress looks like it was made for you! Please do wear that to the graduation, it looks beautiful on you. Your hair looks fabulous too, and the second picture you posted you look so effortlessly glam.
Congratulations to your daughter from me, I hope you and your family have a wonderful day celebrating her and her achievements.
Also, I have to say I admire your courage to post yourself on here, I know some comments were awful and they upset you but you've shown more courage than so many of us. Yes you wanted to seek advice, but even then not many of us would have this confidence, this is a testament to your character, you must be one tough cookie!
I wish you all the happiness and good health OP, here's hoping so many better days come your way.