I am NOT enjoying choosing my wedding dress - pics

[Pinkarsedfly]

I’m getting married on my 45th birthday, in just a couple of weeks - and I’m so excited.

Except I’m at my fattest. Ever. And suddenly who I feel I am inside doesn’t match what’s in the mirror.

I simply can’t find a dress that suits me.

I keep thinking I’ve found ‘the one’ - then I see the pics and just feel I look heinous, and back it goes.

If I show the pics, can anyone out there give me honest feedback, make suggestions etc?

It’s a tiny registry office wedding followed by a nice dinner after.

TIA

You look beautiful op

I turned my phone off and on again. Foolproof

I didn’t feel it, but thank you.

Looking for Dress 2

Don't worry pink mn might not get back to you now until tomorrow but don't disappear we are happy to wait. Most of us will be ready and waiting to help you out tomorrow once the pics are sorted out.

Once we see what you are trying on and how it looks we will gleefully direct you to things that we think will suit you.

Some of us love a good hunt the right outfit thread!

I don't like the dress, but you are OFFICIALLY not fat! I'd love to be your size.

Honestly?

I agree. That dress isnt the nicest or the best on you but you have a cracking gorgeous figure! I dont know what I expected but I'd love to be this slim you lool gorgeous!

Have a look at:
DP
GODDIVA
NEXT
M AND S
FOREVER UNIQUE
QUIZ
Monsoon

all have some lovely bridal dresses

I'm not hugely fond of that dress but can I say- you are way too harsh on yourself. You look lovely, and I am not just saying that to blow smoke up your arse.

I love dress 1.

I like they but I think it needs to be a little more fitted under the bust to make it flatter your boobs and sit nicely.

I don't like that dress OP - neither the colour nor the style flatters you. But I was looking for the heffalump and you have a great figure! Also don't think that's a flattering length for you.

I think you look stunning!

Also you are no fat. Not by any stretch of the imagination.

I love the Reiss dress that @wineis shared. Not feeling the dress in pic 1 OP. You're definitely not fat though and you've a good figure on you!

Okay, Dress 2 - went back. I’m starting to regret that.

Honestly I thought you were going to be a heffalump.

You are not fat.

Not keen on the dress though.

Don't like it. You are categorically not fat, but I think a midi length would be much much more flattering.

You’re all very kind - but I’m 13 bloody stone

I wasn’t this heavy when I was 9 months gone

You have a beautiful figure but I don’t like that colour on you. You are definitely not fat!

I’m not mad about that dress either op, as op said I don’t think the length flatters you. I do however wish I had your figure!

I don't love the colour of dress 1 but you're certainly not fat.

I can’t see dress 2 but the colour of dress 1 is a bit drab, but the shape was nice. Your red shoes are fab and you have good legs & ankles!

Sorry, that was meant for the 1st photo. I prefer the second, but again, a slightly longer length would look much better in my opinion (not maxi, midi)

Don’t like dress two either. Not for your wedding

Just to clarify - I meant I didn’t like the colour of dress 1.

Ooh, that Reiss dress is nice!