@Pinkarsedfly, wow what a difference a day makes! We were all rooting for you to find your dress :). To see you actually smiling and so working it, girlfriend, in your swanking it photo, you just looked gorgeous!
If you don't mind, I have to say I did initially prefer the dress in the first picture you posted about 2.45pm, as I thought it was very flattering on you, the colour was lovely, especially the splashes of colour of the flowers which lifted it and it showed off your lovely flat stomach, amazing boobs and ticked all your previously stated boxes for floaty etc. etc, but wasn't initially blown away by lace dress no. 2. (Though part of that might have been because of my OCD not coping with the creases from it being packaged and posted not yet having dropped put and making it stick out at the sides lol.) But with the different angles you have photographed yourself in it, from putting on a different bra, and adding shoes to give you height, and checking the link to those gorgeous glimmer sandals you've ordered from Next, that changed. Imagine if they arrived before you go for your Bravissimo fitting - take them and (other option) dress(es) with you!
Laughing loads at the DP being putty in your hands re your red shoes, but I'm sure on the day, your lovely dress, glimmer shoes or whichever outfit/shoes you end up wearing and the fact that it is actually YOU, no longer just DP, but amazing WIFE who is inside them will do the very trick! As a back up though, just to be sure, maybe plank your red shoes somewhere at the venue/hotel/back at home so that if any added incentive is really needed, you can just slip your wedding shoes off, slide into your Dorothy's and click you heels together 3 times!!!!
I hope now you actually have some fun trying on some (or all) of the other dresses you have ordered (with your good bra on/shoes to try with) and it will either cement this one, or even if it turns out one of them is THE dress, so what/even better. Either way at least now you've had the pleasure of being able to discard the wrong ones and choose the right one, not because it was the least worst option / the best of a bad bunch / the only one that fit so it was Hobson's Choice as there was no more time... You are going to be happy and look a million dollars on your Wedding (& Birth) Day.
You do now realise though that we've gone way past just seeing photos of the dress before the day, and photos of you in the dress & finery on your Wedding day etc - we are all now expecting an invite TO the wedding! I mean we must all be your very special friend's to have been included in shopping for your wedding dress, right? You'll have to tell us if there's a colour scheme, and whether it's hat or no hats …..
One thing you can be sure of - when the 300 of us turn up NO-ONE WILL BE WEARING THE SAME DRESS AS YOU ;)