I'm too fat to wear this?!?

[Racheyg]

Please be honest. I'm too fat to wear this outfit aren't I?

it's nice but it will be very heavy and sticky outy for want of a better explanation on the waist. i think the skater style will compliment your lovely figure though.

Reds not really my colour so i can't say i like it much. prefer a wine red but that's just personal choice however i did read online bold brights colours are best avoides at weddings as eyes will be drawn to you on group photos.

I just found this product. Boutique Ray Lace Detail Top Skater Dress www.boohoo.com/restofworld/invt/dzz72865?color=pink

I just found this product. Boutique May Jacquard Top Midi Skirt Co-Ord Set www.boohoo.com/restofworld/invt/dzz86684?color=multi

You certainly don't have a lot of tummy! There should be plenty oh boutiques in London that would have this neckline!

I'm keeping the dress whether I wear it to the wedding. I really like the dress. Obv I will wear with a better bra

Is the leopard print shoes too much? Does the fit of the dress make me look huge?

I like that one best, with a better bra though like you said. I do like the shoes with it too actually.

You don't look fat in it, but it doesn't suit you,
It wouldn't suit me either, I really don't like it. As others have said OP, you've got a good shape, you just need to find the right dress.

i quite like it. it does look a bit tight on the back aroynd the shoulder area. i wonder if a control slip would sit nicely underneath it?

shoes go quite nice too.

The dress is too tight. It isn't the right style/shape of dress for you. Sorry.

It's the waistline, it makes you look boxy.

sorry but that red dress does nothing for you; boxy looking and it's pulling on the back

The dress might work OK in a size up? It just looks really tight and makes you appear bigger than you are (which isn't big at all). Sorry.

What's better? The strapless dress or the "boxy" dress? I don't think I can face trying anymore clothes on. I wish this wedding would hurry up, I don't think I have been so concerned with how I look before.

id go for jumpsuit with a fascinator and different shoes. maybe some barely there sandals in black?

The red is better than the pink strapless, IMO, but would be better still in the next size up.

I must have missed the strapless one. That is my favourite. I love the colour.

I just went back through the thread and saw the strapless one. It's not bad per say, but it looks like it needs to be hoiked up at the front and it doesn't do your back any favours. To be totally honest, they both look too small for you, and that is not to say that you are fat, you aren't, but those dresses on you make you look like you need to shed a couple of pounds because they are too small and catch you in all the wrong places. If either of them were a size up they would probably look better.

I just find that dress a strange mix and I'm not sure of what it's supposed to be doing?

Classic lace and shape/length - with a cutout?

I also think they are extremely hard colours to wear on pale skin.

It's the dress that's confused, I think.

Looking at your hair and tattoos etc it seems you are a bit more edgy than this dress can be. A bold colour and cut would work better. You're legs are great and you have dainty ankles and nice shoulders, so they could be shown off a lot more too in something skimming and fitted above the knee???

I think a Bardot dress something like this but maybe not as long m.johnlewis.com/jolie-moi-floral-organza-prom-dress-black/p/2809085

Or maybe something like this m.johnlewis.com/oasis-floral-print-cowl-dress-blue-multi/p/2943335

I'm not mad about the floral print on either of them, but I think the shapes might suit

I really like the red dress with the leopard shoes. It's a great colour, edgy enough for your look and v flattering. I think it's just the camera angle which makes it look like your shoulders are out of proportion to your hips. I am hourglass and cannot stand photos of me taken from this angle.

Ps burn the pink one - it's not you.

I think you'd look lovely in a colourful pencil skirt, preferably patterned, and a nice Cani top. You have a great figure but this look would show off your slim bottom half and minimise your wider shoulders...(I wish my shoulders were only as wide as yours!!!)

Something bold like this.....(the first one on Google!)

A Bardot top would be lovely with a pencil skirt like that too

www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_61252+271322_-1

i do like this