In our house DP washes the darks and I do the lights, works well as most of my clothes are light and I keep anything "special" separate to do myself. I really want to get a laundry basket with 3 compartments sad
santa i found myself watching TLC yesterday - Say Yes To The Dress 
shop congratulations! So glad you could see it.
QueenC thanks, that dress is definitely one I'd seek out in the flesh, though the neckline isn't quite what I want. The trouble with high street wedding ranges is finding which shops stock them, flagship stores I guess?
mara thanks for your links too, I have seen that needle and thread dress, think it's too "solid" looking material if you see what I mean. I think I'm going to take a day off work in the next 2 weeks for another London trip and go to Temperley. :)
Fedup that thread was informative! Everyone had such cheap dresses. I just don't know where they would have found them, everything steers you towards these big bridal shops!
novice thank you
I am going to step back from it for a few days I think. My lovely sister chatted to my mum without me knowing, and apparently she said she doesn't mind about the cost. I feel very lucky! So I just need to find a dress I love and deal with the guilt.