I have an aibu/wwyd, but obviously far too scared to venture onto aibu 
If you went to someone's house (unannounced)
How many times would you knock on the door, even if you thought someone was home?
You have never been inside this house, you've only ever posted a birthday or Christmas card, so not like close friends, where you'd try the back door etc.
At lunch time today, 12-10 to be exact... I spotted dh's ex mil marching towards our house.
So, as you can imagine I hid in the bedroom :o
And text dh saying she was outside
We were in the middle of a text argument at the time, and I was a bit upset so not exactly wanting visitors.
I assumed that she would be posting Christmas cards.
(dsd took our cards round yesterday, but her grandmother wasn't in)
I didn't think she would ring the doorbell, on a day when she knows dsd is at college and dh's car wasn't outside.
But ring the doorbell she did, interspersed with rattling the letter box, and knocking on the windows for 28 FUCKING MINUTES!?!
Yes, my car was outside and yes she probably saw that the tv was on... And she might have seen a little 2 year old peep out the window before running upstairs to find me...
But come on, seriously... You'd ring once or twice then walk away. Or any sane person would!?
Dh ended up ringing my mobile, as he didn't believe me when I said she'd rung the doorbell 12 times.
I wanted to go down, and ask her what on earth she was doing.
Even if you saw the tv etc and thought someone was in, you'd think that they were obviously busy, in the bath, on the loo or just did not want visitors!