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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 71

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Kirstylou91 · 30/05/2025 12:36

NC - NEW CLAIM
COC - CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES
MR - MANDATORY RECONSIDERATION
SD - SCAN DATE

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Liya1xx · 04/06/2025 11:30

OneSparklyFawn · 04/06/2025 11:18

Im nervous about lack of eveidence too but yours Sounds like you have enough lovely, I've known people to send alot less and I get what they was after, I know it goes by the level of care but still thats a good amount youve got for them xx

Thank you, I feel a little bit better now hearing it from
someone else! This wait is just so nerve wracking x

Lmtab · 04/06/2025 11:40

Sausagedogtoddles · 04/06/2025 11:06

@Lmtab how did you get on? I've just spoken to them and he said to wait a couple of weeks this is ridiculous 🙄

Same really said to phone back on Monday to check new evidence is uploaded but they’ve still got five weeks to decide. Been told the same thing since mid may :(

Sausagedogtoddles · 04/06/2025 11:50

Yeah pretty much the same as me, we definitely have a very low dm 😂

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 11:58

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:05

How old is your little one that’s a really long award congratulations xx

Hevis 7 now but they couldn't do the ADHD QB test till he was 6 x

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:01

Can someone answer me this question UC have now said to me for them to stop calling me into job centre I have to claim carrers allowance I said that’s not right all I need to report I’m now caring for someone over 35 hours and gets carrers element am I right or are they right

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:09

Lmtab · 04/06/2025 11:20

Yeah. No luck just said it’s with a decision maker awaiting a call back from the school.

I said it’s been with a decision maker awaiting a call back from the school since mid may. Can the decision maker please call the school again. I’m so fed up. I sent in extra evidence from school by recorded delivery early this week but it’s still not showing on the system.

I don’t know what they could possibly have to ask the school that’s not listed on his ASD report, EP report, and SENDCO statement of needs though,

I feel like they are going to decline and dragging it out like this is horrendous.

That is unbelievable it really is I’ll keep everything crossed for u 💛

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Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:10

Ladies, I am stuck I’m claiming carers to get UC of my
Back but I’m stuck if anyone can help I’d be greatful xxx

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Nieks247 · 04/06/2025 12:10

Liya1xx · 04/06/2025 11:03

I feel like I haven’t sent enough, like I’ve sent her 18 page autism report, letter from paediatrics stating she’s a risk, doctors referral form to community paediatrics, statements,
IEPs, referral letters to OT, camhs and dietitians and the ehcp request I drafted she recently moved schools and has only just seen a EP so I still don’t have that report but trying to see if the senco can do something in the mean time for us whilst we’re waiting. It’s honestly the worse this long wait and now it’s like our 25 weeks is up it’s giving us even more anxiety it’s so unfair! But I’m the 02/12 we will probably hear back around the same time! at first I got a letter for 12 weeks then 15 now 25. Then they have the cheek to question in to why we’re calling them when we’ve now exceeded that time x

ye Hun you have sent a lot aswell!! What more can we really send??
Very unfair to wait this long especially that we waited already first time round aswell.

I’ve not received any letters at all I queried that and they said it doesn’t matter. Weird that I haven’t got not one letter since start of this process!!

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:11

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:01

Can someone answer me this question UC have now said to me for them to stop calling me into job centre I have to claim carrers allowance I said that’s not right all I need to report I’m now caring for someone over 35 hours and gets carrers element am I right or are they right

I’ve been told the same must claim
carers u will still get same amount of money but UC take
it of so u can get it every week on a Monday or every 4 weeks xxx

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Liya1xx · 04/06/2025 12:19

Nieks247 · 04/06/2025 12:10

ye Hun you have sent a lot aswell!! What more can we really send??
Very unfair to wait this long especially that we waited already first time round aswell.

I’ve not received any letters at all I queried that and they said it doesn’t matter. Weird that I haven’t got not one letter since start of this process!!

I’m sending any letters I find literally every other week! Sometimes I’m writing up things late at night having to explain certain things aswell incase they don’t read it properly the anxiety it’s giving I just don’t understand how it’s exceeded 25 weeks now and they expect people to keep calm? I really hope you get your award our children deserve it and it’s a shame these decision makers can’t actually see what we do on a daily I was saying to the lady on the phone earlier I was worried about being declined and if there was a way to send in videos of my child’s behaviour it would be a whole different perspective for them! x

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:20

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:11

I’ve been told the same must claim
carers u will still get same amount of money but UC take
it of so u can get it every week on a Monday or every 4 weeks xxx

I just asked my work coach to call me and she did she said the career element shoukd also turn off work commitments as your classed as caring for someone I won’t be doing uc as it deducts money and can’t be asked for that

Asdmummyhere · 04/06/2025 12:20

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:01

Can someone answer me this question UC have now said to me for them to stop calling me into job centre I have to claim carrers allowance I said that’s not right all I need to report I’m now caring for someone over 35 hours and gets carrers element am I right or are they right

Have you made the change on your uc to say you are caring for someone?

Asdmummyhere · 04/06/2025 12:21

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:10

Ladies, I am stuck I’m claiming carers to get UC of my
Back but I’m stuck if anyone can help I’d be greatful xxx

start date will be the date your child was awarded dla from

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:21

Asdmummyhere · 04/06/2025 12:20

Have you made the change on your uc to say you are caring for someone?

Not yet as I’m waiting to see the letter to see when. She was award from no one would telll me over the phone

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:22

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:20

I just asked my work coach to call me and she did she said the career element shoukd also turn off work commitments as your classed as caring for someone I won’t be doing uc as it deducts money and can’t be asked for that

How do u do the career element then xxx

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Asdmummyhere · 04/06/2025 12:23

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:21

Not yet as I’m waiting to see the letter to see when. She was award from no one would telll me over the phone

Once you have done that on uc it will turn off any work commitments

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:24

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:22

How do u do the career element then xxx

I saw this on the group and saved it I’m gunna copy them instructions xx

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Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:27

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:21

Not yet as I’m waiting to see the letter to see when. She was award from no one would telll me over the phone

On caring for someone on UC it’s asking when this care started , well forever lol but what date do I need
to put in xx

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Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:31

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 12:27

On caring for someone on UC it’s asking when this care started , well forever lol but what date do I need
to put in xx

I think it’s the dla when u rang for the forms or if u didn’t send on time the scan date or something x

Mum2allgirls · 04/06/2025 12:33

It's me again 🤣 another update ladies, rang again went through option 4 instead of 2 and explained everything how deflated I am how much false information I have had etc but he told me it is with a decision maker 100% then he went on to explain they are working weekends etc so if I haven't heard by 4pm Sunday to call back morning Monday and they will chase it up with the case manager x

Curlycookie5 · 04/06/2025 12:57

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 12:01

Can someone answer me this question UC have now said to me for them to stop calling me into job centre I have to claim carrers allowance I said that’s not right all I need to report I’m now caring for someone over 35 hours and gets carrers element am I right or are they right

I claim carers allowance for this same reason

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 12:58

Mum2allgirls · 04/06/2025 12:33

It's me again 🤣 another update ladies, rang again went through option 4 instead of 2 and explained everything how deflated I am how much false information I have had etc but he told me it is with a decision maker 100% then he went on to explain they are working weekends etc so if I haven't heard by 4pm Sunday to call back morning Monday and they will chase it up with the case manager x

Great news! Hopefully not much longer now xx

Curlycookie5 · 04/06/2025 13:00

Here is the post for anyone claiming disability and carers elements on uc

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Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 13:02

What does adding the carers element do ? Xxx

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Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 13:03

Curlycookie5 · 04/06/2025 12:57

I claim carers allowance for this same reason

Do I get the same amount of money but IC deduct the carers allowance of each month

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