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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 71

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Kirstylou91 · 30/05/2025 12:36

NC - NEW CLAIM
COC - CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES
MR - MANDATORY RECONSIDERATION
SD - SCAN DATE

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Mummyjustmummy · 04/06/2025 10:59

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 09:58

Been on hold 25 mins feel physically sick x

Any updates lovely?

im MR 21/11 just got off the phone to dla they said they working on my date now so can be any minute got told the same yesterday. The wait is destroying me

NatalieLxx · 04/06/2025 10:59

My daughter is exactly the same, she is 5 though. And the reason they gave to only give lower just proved them hadn’t read through the evidence properly. My little brother gets HRM for less so even my parents confirmed it was the wrong decision! I’m really hoping they contact my daughters school for extra input because my daughter can’t go anywhere within her tiny unit without her 1-1 cos she can’t be trusted to be safe. She just doesn’t have the mental capacity for it.

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:02

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 10:32

Awarded from 4/06.24 -2030 LRM and MRC can't believe it feels such a relief x

Congratulations xx

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:02

Gemini000 · 04/06/2025 10:31

Do they say anything if u keep ringing I'm.15 weeks today.. how do some call handlers know more than others x

No one said anything to me about how many times I'd called xx

Liya1xx · 04/06/2025 11:03

Nieks247 · 04/06/2025 10:55

Ohhhh bless you. My daughter sounds exactly the same. it’s sooooo long and my anxiety has been through the roof hence why I was up writing another statement all night!

I hope it’s not much longer for us! You would thing MR would be quicker than new claims. The process is long and I hope we don’t need to go tribunal. Hopefully we have done enough.

your the 2/12 ain’t ya?

I feel like I haven’t sent enough, like I’ve sent her 18 page autism report, letter from paediatrics stating she’s a risk, doctors referral form to community paediatrics, statements,
IEPs, referral letters to OT, camhs and dietitians and the ehcp request I drafted she recently moved schools and has only just seen a EP so I still don’t have that report but trying to see if the senco can do something in the mean time for us whilst we’re waiting. It’s honestly the worse this long wait and now it’s like our 25 weeks is up it’s giving us even more anxiety it’s so unfair! But I’m the 02/12 we will probably hear back around the same time! at first I got a letter for 12 weeks then 15 now 25. Then they have the cheek to question in to why we’re calling them when we’ve now exceeded that time x

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 11:03

Senmummy1234 · 04/06/2025 10:44

Can I asked what you sent in please? Congratulations x

Mine was MR additional info I sent after his rejection was was print out from doctors of his diagnosis of ADHD and xxy syndrome and list of medication. That's all I additionally sent as first time he had no diagnosis

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 11:04

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:02

Congratulations xx

Thanks so much good luck to everyone xx

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 11:04

Kelz23 · 04/06/2025 10:51

Good luck x

Have u got through xx

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Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:05

@Lmtab good luck x

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:05

Laura771 · 04/06/2025 10:32

Awarded from 4/06.24 -2030 LRM and MRC can't believe it feels such a relief x

How old is your little one that’s a really long award congratulations xx

Sausagedogtoddles · 04/06/2025 11:06

@Lmtab how did you get on? I've just spoken to them and he said to wait a couple of weeks this is ridiculous 🙄

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:07

@Mum2allgirls I used option 4 xx

OneSparklyFawn · 04/06/2025 11:07

I go through option 4 aswell x

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:08

How did u all find out what day you was awarded from and how long the award was for they refused to tell me that on the phone last week and was told to just wait for the letter but that could take ages

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 11:08

Kelz23 · 04/06/2025 10:39

Definitely it shows how fast things can change, so happy your sorted now and the wait is over has it’s absolutely awful wait x

I can’t believe it nothing on Monday still in holding que then next day awarded it’s crazy unless some call handlers don’t like to say it’s with a DM or it just proves how fast it can all change xx

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Mum2allgirls · 04/06/2025 11:10

@Katiie13x @OneSparklyFawn thanks ladies, I will call and try option 4 as I always do option 2 and just feel like it constantly a false information etc. x

Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:10

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:08

How did u all find out what day you was awarded from and how long the award was for they refused to tell me that on the phone last week and was told to just wait for the letter but that could take ages

I was told on the phone, the lady I had was lovely, she said the letter has been sent out, then she loaded it up on the screen and read it through for me x

OneSparklyFawn · 04/06/2025 11:11

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:08

How did u all find out what day you was awarded from and how long the award was for they refused to tell me that on the phone last week and was told to just wait for the letter but that could take ages

My SIL received her back pay Friday and her letter arrived yesterday x

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 11:11

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:08

How did u all find out what day you was awarded from and how long the award was for they refused to tell me that on the phone last week and was told to just wait for the letter but that could take ages

When I rang she said a decision has been made so I said can u please put me through to someone who can tell me she said yes of course , put me through the lady answered and said have u got a pen and she basically said the rates the amount the next payment date and the back pay amount xx

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Katiie13x · 04/06/2025 11:12

@Mum2allgirls good luck, it's worth a shot! I think it's a longer wait with option 4, I didn't get straight through but worth it if they can give some clarity xx

Mummyof4children · 04/06/2025 11:12

OneSparklyFawn · 04/06/2025 11:11

My SIL received her back pay Friday and her letter arrived yesterday x

I got back pay yesterday so I guess it will be this weeek that letter comes then x

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 11:13

Gd luck to everyone 💛🫶🏼🌸💛

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Mum2allgirls · 04/06/2025 11:14

@Katiie13x ok thankyou I will try and get through before I have to do nursery run x

OneSparklyFawn · 04/06/2025 11:18

Liya1xx · 04/06/2025 11:03

I feel like I haven’t sent enough, like I’ve sent her 18 page autism report, letter from paediatrics stating she’s a risk, doctors referral form to community paediatrics, statements,
IEPs, referral letters to OT, camhs and dietitians and the ehcp request I drafted she recently moved schools and has only just seen a EP so I still don’t have that report but trying to see if the senco can do something in the mean time for us whilst we’re waiting. It’s honestly the worse this long wait and now it’s like our 25 weeks is up it’s giving us even more anxiety it’s so unfair! But I’m the 02/12 we will probably hear back around the same time! at first I got a letter for 12 weeks then 15 now 25. Then they have the cheek to question in to why we’re calling them when we’ve now exceeded that time x

Im nervous about lack of eveidence too but yours Sounds like you have enough lovely, I've known people to send alot less and I get what they was after, I know it goes by the level of care but still thats a good amount youve got for them xx

Lmtab · 04/06/2025 11:20

Kirstylou91 · 04/06/2025 11:04

Have u got through xx

Yeah. No luck just said it’s with a decision maker awaiting a call back from the school.

I said it’s been with a decision maker awaiting a call back from the school since mid may. Can the decision maker please call the school again. I’m so fed up. I sent in extra evidence from school by recorded delivery early this week but it’s still not showing on the system.

I don’t know what they could possibly have to ask the school that’s not listed on his ASD report, EP report, and SENDCO statement of needs though,

I feel like they are going to decline and dragging it out like this is horrendous.

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