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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 71

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Kirstylou91 · 30/05/2025 12:36

NC - NEW CLAIM
COC - CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES
MR - MANDATORY RECONSIDERATION
SD - SCAN DATE

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brc13 · 01/06/2025 21:25

Honestly I not trying to get on peoples back, it’s stressful enough the wait, but imagine if someone was silently lurking on here and they seen there post from Facebook being posted on here and seeing someone have a negative response (even if it is directed at DLA) to their kids being awarded, just doesn’t sit right with me. All our kids deserve their awards and we shouldn’t have to fight the system to get it but that’s how it is and there’s nothing at the moment we can do to change it. As I said I’ve been in these threads since December and I haven’t seen as much negative responses as I have in the last few so just wanted to make sure this women was okay and give her a little bit of advice to take a break from here because these threads do not help the anxiety at all X

Boymum72748 · 01/06/2025 21:29

Kirstylou91 · 01/06/2025 19:54

Exactly my point. I’m exactly the same my son has severe ADHD it’s exhausting it is what it is I wouldn’t change him for the world but uknow what DLA need to sort their shit out kus I’m fucking fuming how can they award 22-24 Feb when there’s people from end of Jan still waiting I’m only NC 17/2 but still come one what r they playing at we r all struggleing so they need to be fair , so when I ring tomorrow I’m guna be asking if they do scan dates in order if they say yes then I’ll be asking to speak to a supervisor/ manager

I’m 20/01 and constantly being fobbed off when I ring, it’s with decision maker, it isn’t, it is, then again it isn’t, it’s so frustrating especially seeing people end of February being awarded already, I feel like just giving up ringing and waiting to receive a letter but godnose how long that will be x

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 21:36

im so confused with all this UC stuff can someone help
so I’ve gone into change of circumstances pressed on my child’s name added dla to her name
I’ve put the date it was awarded is this wrong ?

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:47

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 21:36

im so confused with all this UC stuff can someone help
so I’ve gone into change of circumstances pressed on my child’s name added dla to her name
I’ve put the date it was awarded is this wrong ?

You need to tell them the date it started ( backdated date ) not the date you was awarded

Londongirl8922 · 01/06/2025 21:50

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 21:36

im so confused with all this UC stuff can someone help
so I’ve gone into change of circumstances pressed on my child’s name added dla to her name
I’ve put the date it was awarded is this wrong ?

You need to ask them to backdate it from the date they received your paperwork so your SD 😊

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:51

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:47

You need to tell them the date it started ( backdated date ) not the date you was awarded

I found this on another thread

DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 71
Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:52

Londongirl8922 · 01/06/2025 21:50

You need to ask them to backdate it from the date they received your paperwork so your SD 😊

It would only be your scan date if you printed the forms off and sent them in if you called for forms it would be the date you called for forms

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 21:54

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:52

It would only be your scan date if you printed the forms off and sent them in if you called for forms it would be the date you called for forms

Oh crap how do I change it as I put the day she was awarded

Londongirl8922 · 01/06/2025 21:54

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:52

It would only be your scan date if you printed the forms off and sent them in if you called for forms it would be the date you called for forms

Oh right ok …thanks for correcting me 🙈 I can’t even remember the date I called them so not sure how I would do that myself when it eventually comes to me changing that

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:56

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 21:54

Oh crap how do I change it as I put the day she was awarded

I would go on uc and do the change how you did it before if it will allow you to then write on your journal and explain there was an error with the date you put.

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:58

Londongirl8922 · 01/06/2025 21:54

Oh right ok …thanks for correcting me 🙈 I can’t even remember the date I called them so not sure how I would do that myself when it eventually comes to me changing that

When they tell you what your award is they will say what date the award started which will be when you called for the form or it will say on the letter when it comes

Londongirl8922 · 01/06/2025 21:59

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:58

When they tell you what your award is they will say what date the award started which will be when you called for the form or it will say on the letter when it comes

Thank you 😊

Mummyof4children · 01/06/2025 22:10

Curlycookie5 · 01/06/2025 21:56

I would go on uc and do the change how you did it before if it will allow you to then write on your journal and explain there was an error with the date you put.

yea I will do that thanks hun x

BySillySloth · 01/06/2025 22:42

@Kirstylou91 i understands ur frustration. Phone date 4/12 SD 18/1 and still waiting . I’m happy 4 ppl bein awarded . But at same time it’s hard seeing ppl way after our dates . I feel that they get a bunch each but if they go on annual leave/off sick they stay on that DM desk til they bk . I can’t think of another reason y so many dates all over the place . I hope u hear soon . An good luck with lil one 2moz

Lifeiswhatyoumakeit9124 · 01/06/2025 22:48

Hi all, my child's DLA is due to end 9th June, ( currently going through renewal ) I called Thursday and it still hasn't been looked at, I'm trying to hold off on calling!! Do they normally do renewals a week before 🤷🏼‍♀️ ( not done a renewal before ) x

Lifeiswhatyoumakeit9124 · 01/06/2025 22:58

Mommaof2babas · 30/05/2025 12:55

Renewal!!
Scan date 28.02
Claim end date 09.06
As of yesterday its with a case manager and should have a decision sometime next week! Going to call back on Wednesday/Thursday!
Good luck everyone!

Edited

Same end date as my child's and I'm in renewal atm still waiting, have you had your decision yet? X

Mommaof2babas · 01/06/2025 23:18

Lifeiswhatyoumakeit9124 · 01/06/2025 22:58

Same end date as my child's and I'm in renewal atm still waiting, have you had your decision yet? X

Hey!! No I've not heard yet, I phoned on 30th and was told it was with a case manager and should have a decision sometime next week, going to phone up on Wednesday and see if there's any updates. In feb/March it was 3 weeks before people were getting decisions but recently it's literally been days before, there is someone on here who's due to run out without yesterday or Monday and they've not heard anything?
Good luck with your renewal!
When did you send your forms back? My scan date is 28.02
Also my first renewal

s39 · 01/06/2025 23:22

Good luck to everyone waiting hoping the new week brings lots of positive outcomes 🍀🤞🏼

Lifeiswhatyoumakeit9124 · 01/06/2025 23:38

Mommaof2babas · 01/06/2025 23:18

Hey!! No I've not heard yet, I phoned on 30th and was told it was with a case manager and should have a decision sometime next week, going to phone up on Wednesday and see if there's any updates. In feb/March it was 3 weeks before people were getting decisions but recently it's literally been days before, there is someone on here who's due to run out without yesterday or Monday and they've not heard anything?
Good luck with your renewal!
When did you send your forms back? My scan date is 28.02
Also my first renewal

Edited

Ah 22/02 was my scan date..... I'm also thinking Wednesday to call.

Kirstylou91 · 02/06/2025 06:23

BySillySloth · 01/06/2025 22:42

@Kirstylou91 i understands ur frustration. Phone date 4/12 SD 18/1 and still waiting . I’m happy 4 ppl bein awarded . But at same time it’s hard seeing ppl way after our dates . I feel that they get a bunch each but if they go on annual leave/off sick they stay on that DM desk til they bk . I can’t think of another reason y so many dates all over the place . I hope u hear soon . An good luck with lil one 2moz

That’s my frustration too & thank u

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Kirstylou91 · 02/06/2025 06:29

brc13 · 01/06/2025 21:15

That’s the thing I have been on the threads and your the only one that I see being abrupt and whenever someone is awarded or comments that they seen someone awarded close to your date you have a sort of passive aggressive reply. I’ve seen you be positive with people until they are awarded and you aren’t as positive after. As people have said before it’s probably decision makers getting a pile of claims to get through and it’s how fast they get through them. We are all in the same boat, like I said some might have urgent claims, I know someone that was having a really hard time financially and are in temporary accommodation and they had a family support worker and they claimed the same time as me and got awarded 2 months before me because their worker called and explained the situation, just think of things like this and that’s why you are seeing them before your SD. Honestly I agree it’s not fair how long the wait is and the system being crap , but breath and as long as you have expressed your kids struggles and sent in all the evidence you have, that’s all you can do🙈

It’s not the people I’m frustrated with it’s the dates and DLA its got nothing to do with the parent being awarded they deserve it for their child , it’s the date some
people r still waiting and there SD is Jan how can u then award aload from middle Feb it’s the system it isn’t right, yes award the urgent claims that’s 100% fair but what ur not understanding is u think im being abrupt to people when there awarded no it’s the SD I’m happy for them
just not happy with late feb SD that’s y I will
say what the hell how can they be awarded late Feb and we’re all still waiting it’s got nothing to do with the parent being awarded just purely scan dates.

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megan345 · 02/06/2025 06:29

keep us updated when you ring today @Kirstylou91good luck❤️

Kirstylou91 · 02/06/2025 06:29

Gd luck today ladies 💛

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Kirstylou91 · 02/06/2025 06:29

megan345 · 02/06/2025 06:29

keep us updated when you ring today @Kirstylou91good luck❤️

I will do @megan345 💛

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megan345 · 02/06/2025 06:30

i’m so nervous now, i hate this wait so much! it’s been 6 months now waiting on his coc and it’s all i can think about these last few weeks x

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