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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 70

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Craftilyhopeful · 22/05/2025 06:34

NC - new claim
COC - change of circumstances
MR - mandatory reconsideration
SD - scan date

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Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:27

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 11:16

Deffo not and I mean another 24/2 awarded today wtf is that all about

It’s annoying me all I wanna do is become my daughters Carrer and get UC off my back with back to work schemes and all that crap even tho I say my daughter needs me they say can’t do nothing till u get awarded DLA it’s a joke

Asdmummyhere · 28/05/2025 13:36

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:27

It’s annoying me all I wanna do is become my daughters Carrer and get UC off my back with back to work schemes and all that crap even tho I say my daughter needs me they say can’t do nothing till u get awarded DLA it’s a joke

it was the same for me when first applying. I had to take ds with me every week for all of a 60 second conversation because ds would have a meltdown. I ended up demanding video calls which they actually agreed to and made my appointments every 2 weeks. They could quite clearly see his difficulties. Hope you get your answer soon x

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:38

Asdmummyhere · 28/05/2025 13:36

it was the same for me when first applying. I had to take ds with me every week for all of a 60 second conversation because ds would have a meltdown. I ended up demanding video calls which they actually agreed to and made my appointments every 2 weeks. They could quite clearly see his difficulties. Hope you get your answer soon x

Honestly UC don’t give a crap about if you have a child with needs they really don’t care as much as I tell them they just say you have to wait like today I had a meeting the woman said you on any courses I said no how can I have to look after my daughter 24/7 they really are uneducated

Mummytoviboys · 28/05/2025 13:40

cherrycherrypickin · 28/05/2025 12:34

15th November

Ring back and ask to be put through to someone who can tell you! 🤞

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:41

MyOtherCarIsAPorsche · 28/05/2025 11:17

@Mummyof4children

She (my daughter) thought it would've been a quicker/more straightforward claim as her daughter has a diagnosed lifelong and life limiting condition - but there was tons of evidence to trawl through.

Yea I thought they award them quicker then others due to having a condition like that

cherrycherrypickin · 28/05/2025 13:42

Mummytoviboys · 28/05/2025 13:40

Ring back and ask to be put through to someone who can tell you! 🤞

I did and they both told me that they didn't give out MR decisions over the phone. Not sure if that's true or means it's based news

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 13:51

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:27

It’s annoying me all I wanna do is become my daughters Carrer and get UC off my back with back to work schemes and all that crap even tho I say my daughter needs me they say can’t do nothing till u get awarded DLA it’s a joke

@Mummyof4childrenThat’s what it’s guna be like for me aswell I’ve got a commitments appointment on the 9th will be telling them I can’t commit to looking for work as my son requires full full time care from myself
I didn’t know if u apply for carers they don’t badger u to look for work do u get paid separately for carers then it comes of ur UC £ for £

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:58

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 13:51

@Mummyof4childrenThat’s what it’s guna be like for me aswell I’ve got a commitments appointment on the 9th will be telling them I can’t commit to looking for work as my son requires full full time care from myself
I didn’t know if u apply for carers they don’t badger u to look for work do u get paid separately for carers then it comes of ur UC £ for £

Yea u can only get carrers if you get middle rate care on dla im just hoping and praying for a good outcome for my daughter UC are a bunch of uneducated people

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:59

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 13:51

@Mummyof4childrenThat’s what it’s guna be like for me aswell I’ve got a commitments appointment on the 9th will be telling them I can’t commit to looking for work as my son requires full full time care from myself
I didn’t know if u apply for carers they don’t badger u to look for work do u get paid separately for carers then it comes of ur UC £ for £

I think carrers allowance gets deducted from your uc but then you ask uc to put on the disabled element and carrers element I believe

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:01

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 13:58

Yea u can only get carrers if you get middle rate care on dla im just hoping and praying for a good outcome for my daughter UC are a bunch of uneducated people

I didn’t know that, well we’re basically hoping for the same outcome, u should hear this week , money in ur account, keep me updated i will u 2

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 14:04

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:01

I didn’t know that, well we’re basically hoping for the same outcome, u should hear this week , money in ur account, keep me updated i will u 2

Yea I will just getting frustrated with it all now seeing all these awards going past and with SD more then mine and some the same as mine get awards it’s very annoying

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:08

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 14:04

Yea I will just getting frustrated with it all now seeing all these awards going past and with SD more then mine and some the same as mine get awards it’s very annoying

Yeah it is annoying it’s Abit of a piss take I just can’t get my head round y the dates r all over the place, I think mine will be soon due to what the lady said to me yesterday

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 14:09

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:08

Yeah it is annoying it’s Abit of a piss take I just can’t get my head round y the dates r all over the place, I think mine will be soon due to what the lady said to me yesterday

What did she say ?

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:10

@Kirstylou91 I rang today, wish I hadn't of bothered with the way I got spoken too 🙈

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:10

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 14:09

What did she say ?

She said yours doesn’t require anymore evidence it’s just literally waiting for a decision

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:12

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:10

@Kirstylou91 I rang today, wish I hadn't of bothered with the way I got spoken too 🙈

@Mum2allgirlsYour joking what did they say 🫣

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:14

@Kirstylou91 said you don't need to ring it's only been 15 weeks so I said so your not going to give me an update if it's with a decision maker or anything she said no call back at 25 weeks if we need anything we will send you a letter 🙈

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:19

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:14

@Kirstylou91 said you don't need to ring it's only been 15 weeks so I said so your not going to give me an update if it's with a decision maker or anything she said no call back at 25 weeks if we need anything we will send you a letter 🙈

Omg that’s disgusting what a snoooooty cow 🐮
im ringing again next week I don’t care if there rude ill say not to be funny but at the beginning of this call it states to treat people equally im talking to u with respect to please do the same, anyway it shouldn’t matter when u call its our claims at the end of the day if they didn’t piss around taking so fucking long to deal with claims we all wouldn’t be so anxious

Mummyof4children · 28/05/2025 14:21

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:19

Omg that’s disgusting what a snoooooty cow 🐮
im ringing again next week I don’t care if there rude ill say not to be funny but at the beginning of this call it states to treat people equally im talking to u with respect to please do the same, anyway it shouldn’t matter when u call its our claims at the end of the day if they didn’t piss around taking so fucking long to deal with claims we all wouldn’t be so anxious

I’m calling next week too I’m gunna mention I know people with the same SD as mine and some later have there awards and I’m still waiting

BySillySloth · 28/05/2025 14:22

First time posting . SD 20/1
I had a call from a DM around two weeks ago saying making a decision that day , whilst on the phone kept use the word IF an explaining that due to my daughters age she would not be entitled to mobility. Also discussed that my form was sent bk 3 days out of the allotted time frame . I explained that the post is really poor around my area . He said that’s fine . Told me wait for letter .

called following day to see if they could tell me . Only to be told expected a letter asking for birth certificate. since sent this off and waiting to hear .

does this sound like a positive outcome? Due to them asking for her birth certificate after been with DM

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:22

@Kirstylou91 I did say to her my two letters I was sent state 15 weeks and mine been 15 weeks ( obviously I seen/heard it taking longer ) she said well obviously the letter wrong isn't it.

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:24

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:22

@Kirstylou91 I did say to her my two letters I was sent state 15 weeks and mine been 15 weeks ( obviously I seen/heard it taking longer ) she said well obviously the letter wrong isn't it.

Omg I can’t believe u was spoke to like that I would of said well how am I supposed the know the letter is wrong ur the ones sending it out so ther for giving out false information
ur guna be anxious now everytime u ring incase u get a moody Margaret

keep me updated tho if u hear anything xx

Kirstylou91 · 28/05/2025 14:26

BySillySloth · 28/05/2025 14:22

First time posting . SD 20/1
I had a call from a DM around two weeks ago saying making a decision that day , whilst on the phone kept use the word IF an explaining that due to my daughters age she would not be entitled to mobility. Also discussed that my form was sent bk 3 days out of the allotted time frame . I explained that the post is really poor around my area . He said that’s fine . Told me wait for letter .

called following day to see if they could tell me . Only to be told expected a letter asking for birth certificate. since sent this off and waiting to hear .

does this sound like a positive outcome? Due to them asking for her birth certificate after been with DM

I wouldn’t of thought they would do all that if it
was a decline

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:26

@Kirstylou91 I ain't calling again anytime soon, took everything in me today to keep cool after been spoken to like that 😂

Kelz23 · 28/05/2025 14:29

Mum2allgirls · 28/05/2025 14:26

@Kirstylou91 I ain't calling again anytime soon, took everything in me today to keep cool after been spoken to like that 😂

How long was you waiting for them to answer the call please, I don’t know if I’ve got patience to sit and listen to that music for an hour lol

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