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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 70

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Craftilyhopeful · 22/05/2025 06:34

NC - new claim
COC - change of circumstances
MR - mandatory reconsideration
SD - scan date

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Tiredndconfused · 26/05/2025 10:36

megan345 · 26/05/2025 10:08

has she been diagnosed herself lovely?xx

Not at the moment however is showing signs in terms of her abilities, maybe I should wait and see if she is diagnosed then do another COC 🤣🤣 xxx

Emmarie245 · 26/05/2025 10:39

megan345 · 26/05/2025 10:20

i feel you! we’re coc 29/11, its a horrible wait:( we receive MRC currently since he was 8 months old but he’s 100% entitled to higher on both, i’m really doubting myself now even though i know i conveyed his needs as best as i could x

so frustrating when im like i already went through the waiting ages for the new claim cant coc be done quicker lol Im also autistic myself and was told 4 different things when i phoned regarding wait times, so it changing constantly makes me so anxious, so im trying hard to put it to the back of my mind but thats so difficult 😂

megan345 · 26/05/2025 10:42

Emmarie245 · 26/05/2025 10:39

so frustrating when im like i already went through the waiting ages for the new claim cant coc be done quicker lol Im also autistic myself and was told 4 different things when i phoned regarding wait times, so it changing constantly makes me so anxious, so im trying hard to put it to the back of my mind but thats so difficult 😂

i won’t lie; i’m struggling to stop thinking about it now, i’ve read through all my evidence again, i’m very active on the fb group especially when it comes to coc’s, i had 23/05 in my calendar as i hit 25 weeks then🤣 trying not to call again till june 2nd but i’ll probably call tomorrow x

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 13:08

Anyone waiting on a NC

SweetPeaSandy · 26/05/2025 13:09

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 13:08

Anyone waiting on a NC

Yep sd 20/01. I’ve given up.

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 13:15

SweetPeaSandy · 26/05/2025 13:09

Yep sd 20/01. I’ve given up.

@SweetPeaSandy mines NC SD 17/2
ive seen so many febs get awarded over the last few weeks , also on Friday a SD of 24/2 was awarded , don’t know what there playing at why there not doing it in order it doesn’t make any sence

I called for the first time on Friday and the lady I spoke
to said my claim is open I asked what this meant and she said no decision hasn’t been made yet
so what does claim open mean? someone’s looking at it maybe ?

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 14:14

is anyone able to clarify what claim open means?
im a NC SD 17/2
rang for first time Friday & the lady I spoke to said my claim is open
I asked what claim is open meant and all she said is no decision has been made yet
so does this mean it’s open and a DM is looking at it?
I can’t find any other meaning for claim is open and she wouldn’t say anything else
if anyone has any info to what it means I’d appreciate it
Flowers

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:18

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 13:08

Anyone waiting on a NC

Yep NC SD 06/02 I’m now thinking they have declined because I’ve seen so many febs get awarded and nothing for me yet some got awarded on Saturday

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:19

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 14:14

is anyone able to clarify what claim open means?
im a NC SD 17/2
rang for first time Friday & the lady I spoke to said my claim is open
I asked what claim is open meant and all she said is no decision has been made yet
so does this mean it’s open and a DM is looking at it?
I can’t find any other meaning for claim is open and she wouldn’t say anything else
if anyone has any info to what it means I’d appreciate it
Flowers

Oh they said that to me a few weeks ago it means they have received your forms and is just there doesn’t mean nothing much it’s a joke it really is

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:21

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:19

Oh they said that to me a few weeks ago it means they have received your forms and is just there doesn’t mean nothing much it’s a joke it really is

That’s fine aslong as they’ve got them I received the letter anyway to state they’ve received it

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:22

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:18

Yep NC SD 06/02 I’m now thinking they have declined because I’ve seen so many febs get awarded and nothing for me yet some got awarded on Saturday

Wow on a Saturday? Are these also Feb dates
i dont know what there playing at , think there picking any up , u should hear next week at the latest !

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:26

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:22

Wow on a Saturday? Are these also Feb dates
i dont know what there playing at , think there picking any up , u should hear next week at the latest !

Yea I logged into Mumsnet and see it I was like what the hell and that was a 17/02 as well I’m the 06/02 it’s a bloody joke also someone with 05/02 got a award also with little evidence maybe I shouldn’t have sent all that I did I sent her ehcp her salt report and a report from school

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:33

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:26

Yea I logged into Mumsnet and see it I was like what the hell and that was a 17/02 as well I’m the 06/02 it’s a bloody joke also someone with 05/02 got a award also with little evidence maybe I shouldn’t have sent all that I did I sent her ehcp her salt report and a report from school

Yeah that is a joke 2bh they should be doing them in order, I saw Friday a SD 24/2 was awarded also, I didn’t send much in a report from school a speech and language report from when he was 3/4 and my 9 page statement
im sure u will hear by next week, have u rang recently for an update , is it with a DM?

YOrkshireTea007 · 26/05/2025 15:39

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:26

Yea I logged into Mumsnet and see it I was like what the hell and that was a 17/02 as well I’m the 06/02 it’s a bloody joke also someone with 05/02 got a award also with little evidence maybe I shouldn’t have sent all that I did I sent her ehcp her salt report and a report from school

I still haven't heard anything 04/02, I also feel like we've been declined. DS is 10, we've held off for many years now doing DLA but we just don't have the funds to keep him busy, safe and to replace things 24/7! Even with working overtime.. I've a smashed patio table and broken bed from meltdowns over minor things in 3 days, this is the norm in our home though. If we're declined I'm not sure what more supervision / help we have to do as I know of people being accepted for less :( - awaiting diagnosis for adhd / autism after a huge fight for that + 2 years waiting list.

StanleyParents · 26/05/2025 15:44

Seeing that they are still working on MRs from November is an absolute joke.

I dont understand why they take so long with them.

We believe my son is entitled to HRM under SMI, they original DM didn't even take SMI into consideration based on the statement of reasons we'd received (despite specifically asking them to consider it).

How they can justify 25+ weeks is beyond me!

Also waiting on a new claim from 27/03 but I dont expect to hear back from that until the end of August if we are lucky. DD is 12 with an ASD diagnosis and looking for a PDA diagnosis also, teenagers are hard work, but a 12 year old girl who masks all day and comes home to violent and sustained meltdowns alongside her brother is just carnage!

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:48

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:33

Yeah that is a joke 2bh they should be doing them in order, I saw Friday a SD 24/2 was awarded also, I didn’t send much in a report from school a speech and language report from when he was 3/4 and my 9 page statement
im sure u will hear by next week, have u rang recently for an update , is it with a DM?

Yea I rang last Monday and they said I’ve got another 6/7 weeks how is that possible unless we are a super lazy dm

megan345 · 26/05/2025 15:49

@ByChirpyhave you had any update lovely?x

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:50

StanleyParents · 26/05/2025 15:44

Seeing that they are still working on MRs from November is an absolute joke.

I dont understand why they take so long with them.

We believe my son is entitled to HRM under SMI, they original DM didn't even take SMI into consideration based on the statement of reasons we'd received (despite specifically asking them to consider it).

How they can justify 25+ weeks is beyond me!

Also waiting on a new claim from 27/03 but I dont expect to hear back from that until the end of August if we are lucky. DD is 12 with an ASD diagnosis and looking for a PDA diagnosis also, teenagers are hard work, but a 12 year old girl who masks all day and comes home to violent and sustained meltdowns alongside her brother is just carnage!

Oh I’m the same my daughter will walk up the stairs swearing at the top of her voice she broke the baby gate we keep at the top so she don’t tumble down and broke the tv I had to replace and her behaviour is just getting worse at school now so o really need this to be able to buy some stuff for her

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:50

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:48

Yea I rang last Monday and they said I’ve got another 6/7 weeks how is that possible unless we are a super lazy dm

That’s an absolute joke the lady told me there getting NC done in 18 weeks
god knows what’s going on , if I hear owt from my claim I’ll post on here but I ain’t banking on hearing till July

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:51

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:50

That’s an absolute joke the lady told me there getting NC done in 18 weeks
god knows what’s going on , if I hear owt from my claim I’ll post on here but I ain’t banking on hearing till July

I’m 16 weeks on Thursday

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:52

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:50

That’s an absolute joke the lady told me there getting NC done in 18 weeks
god knows what’s going on , if I hear owt from my claim I’ll post on here but I ain’t banking on hearing till July

That can’t be true tho if all these people before mine and after yours are getting awards

Kirstylou91 · 26/05/2025 15:53

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:52

That can’t be true tho if all these people before mine and after yours are getting awards

That’s what I don’t understand there saying different things to people, the lady that got awarded Thursday her claim was NC and took 16 weeks 1
day
im 15 weeks this week

MyboyCJ · 26/05/2025 15:58

NC SD 17/02

I rang last week and was told to expect until mid August. This is crazy. I'm now starting to think I didnt send enough evidence. Stressed!!!

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:59

MyboyCJ · 26/05/2025 15:58

NC SD 17/02

I rang last week and was told to expect until mid August. This is crazy. I'm now starting to think I didnt send enough evidence. Stressed!!!

Edited

Nar there’s people been awarded with little evidence on the last few days
I’ve seen 05/02
03/02
17/02
23/02
all get awarded I’m 06/02 with a lot of evidence and I’ve heard nothing

MyboyCJ · 26/05/2025 16:01

Mummyof4children · 26/05/2025 15:59

Nar there’s people been awarded with little evidence on the last few days
I’ve seen 05/02
03/02
17/02
23/02
all get awarded I’m 06/02 with a lot of evidence and I’ve heard nothing

So do you think it's because there is more to look at? I wonder if it depends on where abouts in the country you are?

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