Evenin' all
Feels like I've been away an absolute age.
I'm also feeling a bit confused and lost with namechanging etc while I was away Madwoman.
Holiday was stressful and not one I'd like to repeat, but on the positive side my dog is out of the woods and completely healed and she had a blast on the beach with the dcs.
Walked to a local park with the dcs this morning and ds1 braved an enormous deathslide/zipwire thing. He was determined to do it, but couldn't climb on the seat, so a lovely boy - about the same age came over and helped without anyone asking him to. He was such a sweetheart, telling ds1 that it was really scary, but really good and explaining the best way to get onto the seat whilst holding it steady for him and giving him and hand up. Gave me a lump in my throat, as he'd obviously picked up that ds1 was a bit different and needed help and encouragement. Ds did indeed manage to stay on the whole distance, but was white as a sheet (with a green tinge) when he got off and looked as if he might throw up any second.
He was so proud of himself though, even more so because his brother wouldn't even consider attempting it.
Its lovely to see him trying new things and being brave - so different from the scared anxious little boy we had this time last year. I think the outward bound trip helped a lot, but also sticking with the swimming and finally getting rid of his bully has really built his confidence. In fact, he actually went out to the sandbank on the beach this year, part-wading, part-swimming and this time last year he'd only go in up to just above his knees. He even wanted to go in when it was rough and jump the waves! 