Frouby that is proper shit and I don't know what to say 
ThisisMadness WELL DONE!
Heirhelp Welcome to the madhouse.
User...1898 As well as finding a new group, you need to report that consultant to Head Office. This is my third (fourth?) time doing SW, in various towns and cities, and I've been to lots of random meetings when I've been visiting family and that is so far from what SW expect their meetings to be, they would NOT be happy. There's one lady at my group who gets her clap heh when she's lost, but who doesn't do any talking at all. She has mild learning disabilities and finds it hard to talk in group, but is a valued member of "us" (and contributes lovely pictures from her dog walks to the group's facebook page). There must be a note on her profile on the tablet, because whenever we have stand-in consultants they do the same thing - she gets the praise for her loss, or for what she's lost so far when there's not a loss, and asked if she's OK (which she mumbles yes to) and then we move on to the next person.
It's DH's birthday on Monday so we had steak last night (we can't celebrate on Monday as I've got college in the evening, we're having a roast as normal tomorrow, and then he's out for a curry tonight with his Army Cadet mates which makes him sound 15, he's not, honest ) which was bloody gorgeous and totally on plan. Gave him the choice of either going out somewhere (and he could've picked anywhere) or steak at home and like the good supportive husband he is he picked steak at home, so it was entirely on plan.