Qui tacet consentire videture... I want it to be understood by MNHQ and by guests to this site that my silence on the subject of the recent speculative threads does NOT condone their existence.

[Aitch]

Aitch.

Haychee

Way out of your depth. You really are.

don;t be silly Haychee - this is one subject which although emotional is just one subject. If any particur subject really distresses me, I resort to my "safe" threads for a while until its all calmed down. It lways does.

Me too.

Lio

No-one really minds people discussing nasty facts haychee, we may choose not to do it ourselves, but there you go.

When we are objecting to is the endless, tasteless speculation which is not based on fact but rather is being dredged from the lower reaches of mankinds nastier excesses.

Whatgood is all this 'discussion' doing? Really? Please enlighten me? Don't tell that it is educational, or helpful, are enlightening, because for the life of me, people playing some sick Miss marple over the whereabouts of a real life child cannot help *antone. Lest of all the people indulging in it.

youhave not been here 5 mins - we have been through the mill a few times!! and alwys come up smelling of roses

No intentions at all other than wanting to be able to say what i want to who i want when i want and how i want.

Most reasonable posters do apparently go to these threads, how many on this list have described what they saw on there? or on any other mm thread?

Haychee don't you think you might be getting too involved in this site? take a break, switch off the computer and get some perspective. Sometimes staring at MN all day makes you lose touch with the real world, your everyday world.

This is just a load of people having a discussion which will be forgotten in a couple of weeks/months/years and this thread is NOT IMPORTANT in the grand scheme of life (virtual and otherwise!!)

So all threads have to do some good do they? Well im sure there are lots especially in chat, style and beauty and in the news that do not do any good

Haychee

You are like the duracell bunny, I am begining [sp] to think that you are just here to shovel shit.

Last weekend it was your profound (uneducated, inarticulate) thread on how people with phobias should get over themselves.

What low life red top rag are you working for ??

Because you can not be for real.

oh give us a break, haychee...

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As for the majority thing, Haychee, I never click on those threads but, whenever one is started up and I'm on here, they always seem to be started by the same 3 or 4 people and you do seem to be obsessed. May I suggest you get a hobby or something.

MB that is a really good point.
I'm not brown nosing but I cannot think of any way in which the gossip and speculation did anyone any good...least of all those of use who got our toes in the water.

I guess it is human nature to speculate whether in private or with others. But it can become indulgent and I think that harms those who indulge more than anyone who just looks in.

why don't we leave Haychee to it - as she is incredibly boring.

haychee, I am interested to know why you feel it necessary to appoint yourself as the 'guardian' of these threads.

I really think you've made your point.

Again.

seeing as this has been bobbing around in active convos all day, tell me in one sentence what the funk this is all about?

I don't want to read it all if it's nasty.

Cheers!
Xx

Where's teh other one? The clever sleuth who's sussed out the whole case - without ever having even viewed the scene! - and can tell peoples' exact frame of mind just from their posts?

Oh, yes, that one's a real keeper!

lady of the flowers, we are having a big discussion as to why we are here

Dogs on or off leads drove me demented

I heart martianbishop

oh you're just cross cos she said you were drunk, expat. that's literally the only stuff on those threads i've read this time round and i pmsl. some daft lassie who said her dad was a cop or somehting and knew about corpse smells and thought expat was a boozebag. LOLOLOL.

anyway, wasn't this supposed to be NOT another McCann discussion? just a registering of protest and offski?

"By haychee on Sun 09-Sep-07 20:48:44
I do feel responsible in some way, your right. I was involved in the suitcase convo...

Plus, i just dont know when to shut up"

Oh really?

oh no, aitch, her other posts reveal her true brilliance as a detective.