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<rings festive bells<adjusts fairy lights> Gather one, gather all, for the Mumsnet Secret Santa 2015!

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SandyMumsnet · 24/09/2015 12:05

Oh the weather outside is frightful,
but Mumsnetters are so delightful,
since we've no place to go,
let gifts flow, let gifts flow, let gifts flow...

Yes, folks, it's that most wonderful time of the year: the day we launch the Mumsnet Secret Santa! True, it's only the end of September, but Santa requires plenty of time to prepare his sleigh Wink

Secret what, you say? You mean you don't KNOW? Grab a snifter of gin and a cinnamon danish and come sit by us while we tell you all about it.

The way it works is this: we ask Mumsnetters to nominate a fellow Mumsnetter* - someone who's had a tough time recently, perhaps, or someone who has been a fantastic source of support to others - to receive a Christmas gift. At the same time, we also ask for gift donations. Once the nominations and donation offers have come in, we at MNHQ match nominees with donors, and contact the donors to tell them where to send their gifts. Et voila: Merry Christmas, everyone.

And just to be clear: this really is a SECRET Santa. Thanks to our tinselled-up tech team, everyone who takes part in the process is anonymous: special Christmas codenames are assigned at the start to both nominee and donor. Neither the team working on matching up nominees to donors nor the donor sending out the present will have anyone's name or username details, and only those who donate will see the address (and only the address - not the username) of the nominee they've been matched with. Security is our number one priority - if you've any questions or concerns, please do ask on the thread (or email us at [email protected]).

But back to the gifts. This year we've created a special

Secret Santa Christmas grotto

where you'll find all the information you need on how to get involved, an explanation of how this annual feat of logistical wonderment works, and an account of how it came about in the first place.

The grotto is also the place where you can make your nomination (at any time between now and October 15th ) and/or pledge to donate (up until 30th October). There are more details about what sort of thing you might wish to give over there too (vouchers are always a good idea), but basically, every gift is welcome. The idea is to spread some festive cheer and make a Mumsnetter's Christmas that little bit more joyful by showing them that they're in your thoughts.

Now, if you'll excuse us, we have something in our eyes.

*Nominated Mumsnetters do need to have been around for six months. We'll be able to see from our end if that's the case, even if they've namechanged.

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LargeTeaPlease · 09/11/2015 22:36

Last year was my first year with Mumsnet and I was so pleased to be able to donate Christmas gifts to a family that had gone through some rough patches but were hoping for better things in the new year. This year I have again asked to be linked with any nominated family so that I can do the same. I have been reading some of the above messages and am a litttle confused. All I would ask to know of a family are ages and sex of each child and that is so that I can buy an age appropriate gift for each child. I don't need to know how many adults are in the house.

I now wait to see if I have been matched to a family this year.

PigletJohn · 09/11/2015 22:51

Heard you the first time.

Grin
MrsWembley · 09/11/2015 22:59
Grin
SandyMumsnet · 10/11/2015 10:49

The matching has begun! [santa]
A massive THANK YOU to everyone who has nominated a Mumsnetter or donated a gift. Flowers

Both the nomination and donation pages are now closed, the spreadsheets are out and we're well stocked with gin and biscuits.
Apologies to anyone who has missed the chance to take part in this year's Secret Santa, we'd love you to join us next year!

If you've been nominated and have accepted your nomination, it's now time to sit back and relax. You'll receive your present in December.
If you've agreed to donate something, you'll receive an email in early December with instructions on sending your gift out.

As always, if you have any queries please drop us a mail at [email protected]

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FruVikingessOla · 10/11/2015 16:32

Poor LargeTea, I can't help but wonder whether she borrowed Chaos's old TwatPhone Grin

As an aside, MNHQ, did you notice that her multiple posts (clearly unintentional) were timed very close to each other ...... but that some of the 'seconds' were out of sequence?

Jux · 10/11/2015 17:20

So they are, FruViking! Curious.

This SS thing is v exciting! When do we get to thank people?

FruVikingessOla · 10/11/2015 17:44

"When do we get to thank people?"

When your gift arrives!!!!

BonesyBones · 30/11/2015 21:29

Do we know yet when the emails for donors are coming? I know you said December, but do we have a date?

I use an old e-mail account for mumsnet and don't remember to check it every day.

Plus I've finished all my other shopping and I'm itching to know who to buy for Grin [santa]

PigletJohn · 30/11/2015 21:47

"early December"

SandyMumsnet · 01/12/2015 10:16

Hiya,

It's December! That means we can now send all the donors their nominee match mail giving them all the information needed to send their gift.

A big thank you to everyone for getting into the festive spirit with us. We elves are a happy bunch stuffed with mince pies and eggnog, those spreadsheets certainly work up an appetite. But now it's over to you donors to gather those lovely gifts and work your magic.

We may be full of Christmas cheer, but we are still here to answer any queries you may have. Take a look at our jingly Mumsnet Secret Santa grotto, but if you're still in the dark, please mail us at [email protected].

We can say it now, Seasons Greetings!
[santa] [santa] [santa] [santa] [santa]

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christmasmum · 01/12/2015 11:06

Crikey - I've now had 8 e-mails all asking me to send secret santa gifts - I only signed up once!

BoreOfWhabylon · 01/12/2015 11:25

Make it stop Sandy - pleeease!

Am overwhelmed with SS emails!

SandyMumsnet · 01/12/2015 11:41

@christmasmum

Crikey - I've now had 8 e-mails all asking me to send secret santa gifts - I only signed up once!

christmasmum Thanks for the heads up!

We are SO SORRY about this, please could we ask you to bear with us on this, our techie team are taking a look right now.

Just to confirm that the mails will be duplicates, if you've pledged one gift, we've matched you with one nominee.

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SandyMumsnet · 01/12/2015 11:42

@BoreOfWhabylon

Make it stop Sandy - pleeease!

Am overwhelmed with SS emails!

If only I could!

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BoreOfWhabylon · 01/12/2015 11:50

Sandy - my emails are not duplicates! The recipient is the same but I'm beng given three different SS numbers (a/b/c)

SandyMumsnet · 01/12/2015 12:01

@BoreOfWhabylon

Sandy - my emails are not duplicates! The recipient is the same but I'm beng given three different SS numbers (a/b/c)
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BoreOfWhabylon · 01/12/2015 12:04
SnottySundays · 01/12/2015 12:25

I've had twelve emails... Also not duplicates (a,b,c...) I only signed up twice...!

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