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ChristmasFuckers · 21/12/2011 15:23

Whatand how can we discuss the donations??

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Get0rf · 21/12/2011 15:38

Oh Pinot I hope you are not too ill and will be better by christmas.

I missed all this last night. This is what happens when I upgrade to Sky Movies and DP makes me watch Inception (wtf? and ooooh Tom Hardy).

Will THIS be the MN Christmas Row 2011?

FaverollesWithBoughsOfHolly · 21/12/2011 15:38

Yuleing - I think the very fact that there have been so many threads about this shows that MN needs to make some sort of stance.
I like angels idea of No cash donations, as that is precisely what started the bunfight last night.
I'm sure if it was a case of "here have this tesco shop to tide you over" no-one would have thought anything of it.

ChristmasFuckers · 21/12/2011 15:38

Givining isnt bad, but there was no coordinations and control.
I always thought if some one needs help with food/bills/money we should help them until they get some mone in i.e benefits and thats how crisis loan works.

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VajazzleMyFoof · 21/12/2011 15:38

This or the Facebook button GetOrf

AliBellandthe40jingles · 21/12/2011 15:38
Xmas Wink

See Pinot - I am trying too, despite the snot.

Pinot · 21/12/2011 15:39

Cor Tom Hardy. I'd make room in my snotty tissue strewn bed for him. Him and Reginald D. Hunter. I digress...

VajazzleMyFoof · 21/12/2011 15:39

I would be happy to send food or even old toys, but money seems wrong.

LissTheSeasonLouBeJollie · 21/12/2011 15:40

I genuinely think that the deletion of subsequent threads was a bad move. thats how myths grow and there will always be a question over what happened.

but, again as I said on the previous thread, the posters who very kindly offered help have to take some responsibility. ali is right, it becomes competitive giving.

Pinot · 21/12/2011 15:40

And the bloke that plays Luther. Phwoar

LissTheSeasonLouBeJollie · 21/12/2011 15:41
roundcornsilkvirgin · 21/12/2011 15:41

I don't mind if someone sends me Tom Hardy.

roundcornsilkvirgin · 21/12/2011 15:41

which one was Luther?

FaverollesWithBoughsOfHolly · 21/12/2011 15:42

Would this be a good time to mention that I actually know someone who is spending Christmas with Tom Hardy? Lucky cow

Get0rf · 21/12/2011 15:42

I once was in a very strange situation - I got a PM from someone (who I didn't recognise) with a link to a thread where someone had no money and no food. The MNer who PMed me said on the thread that I lived in the same city, and perhaps I would be able to to buy a tenner's worth of essentials and deliver it to the skint MNer who lived about a mile or so away (in a rough area). I was completely and utterly Hmm at the whole thing, and thought that it was a dodgy thing to do. I said I couldn't do it, but was very annoyed with the MNer who PMd me, and thought that there was some scam afoot.

My fault I suppose by being open about which city I live in, but just goes to show that people blatantly do try it on.

ChristmasFuckers · 21/12/2011 15:43

Helen what you think about no cash donations rule?

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LissTheSeasonLouBeJollie · 21/12/2011 15:43

can I have Robb from GoT please? he will make me feel better

BloodyWedding · 21/12/2011 15:43

I saw the original thread and posted on it but have seen nothing since. Can you do me a catch up (obv dont if it will get this thread deleted)

BloodyWedding · 21/12/2011 15:43

Tom Hardy???????????????????????? I love him.

LissTheSeasonLouBeJollie · 21/12/2011 15:43

getorf Xmas Shock thats shit.

roundcornsilkvirgin · 21/12/2011 15:44

faverolles ...who?

AwayinaKayzr · 21/12/2011 15:44

What is it about Christmas anyway? Since I joined in 2006 there's been a Xmas row.

I do really like the poster in question. We were on the June 2012 thread. TBH if I had seen that she was struggling with money I would have sent her some as I did with TheWiltedRose.

But maybe there needs to be something in place. But what exactly and how is it managed?

Nothing anyone at MNHQ does will be able to stop posters giving money to people who say they are struggling.

Get0rf · 21/12/2011 15:44

Oh my god, faverolles. I would be so jealous. How beautiful that man is. Yes pinot, Tom and Idris (yumyum)

ChristmasFuckers · 21/12/2011 15:44

How odd get0rf..

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Get0rf · 21/12/2011 15:45

i don't know if Inception was actually good or not, I was just lost in a reverie of Tom fantasies.

Get0rf · 21/12/2011 15:45

Was a bit strange - it was ages ago now.

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