Any sex tips to impress him

[Hopefullyoneday12]

I really like the guy I'm seeing.
I find the sex amazing and have told him that.
He is much more experienced than me and although I think he enjoys it too, I wish it was as incredible for him as it is for me.
I want to keep the relationship going for a while longer yet.
Would appreciate any tips / practical suggestions to really 'blow his mind'. Or at least make it very hot.

Think to yourself "what would Thatcher do" and you won't go far wrong.

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A bit early to ask for wank fodder for strangers OP

Lol.

I've been here ages. Long time poster

And yes it's the same guy I've been anxious about in all my recent posts

Then you know there’s a Sex discussion board OP

@Hopefullyoneday12

I've been here ages. Long time poster

They why haven't you posted on sex? The board that requires you to have been a member 3months...

She does know there's a sex board as she's recently been asking on there about how to stick a finger up his arse in order to keep him interested.

Ok. Going with it then.

If you are this “anxious” about a guy and sounding a bit desperate to hang onto him I don’t think this is going to work

Not without you turning yourself into some sort of subservient, craven sex doll with a “treat me like shit” sign on your forehead

My only thought is how sex tips is possibly on someone’s mind at 730 am if in the UK. I genuinely envy their life - me and 6 and 2 and spouse are being frightfully grumpy with each other owing to sleep deprived night and needing to get everyone dressed and fed and out of the door. I’ve got 5 mins for coffee now and this is what it’s gone on I suppose: writing a post in awe of a mumsnetter

Sorry but also you posted this - just this month about your very charismatic DH? So which is it? Guy you’re seeing a week later after posting about your husband?

@IlFaitBeau
It is a bit early. I've been up since 5:45 because seeing him later and already feel a bit sick with nerves / excited.

@ShowOfHands I just laughed out loud

Why don't you ask him?

Sex is good when you’re not trying to impress. This is not going to work for you

Buy a chandelier.

What does your handsome and charismatic DH think? Why not ask him for some sex tips about how to blow your new man's mind?

I’m just here still trying to understand what the deal is with the charismatic DH and the guy she’s seeing all posted within the same month.

Bloody hell, I've not even finished my coffee yet

I see a cloud of dust and OP in the distance. Although it’s lost on me that I am reading this at 8am.

No wonder you’re anxious if you’ve got two on the go. Remembering to call out the right name !

Loving this thread

OP you posted the below and got replies, bit odd to be asking questions again so soon…

Finger up his bum. How? 13
16/03/2022 23:04 Hopefullyoneday12

My new casual partner has mentioned this

I realise it's probably pretty standard but having been in a very sexually boring LTR I am new to this.

When is it 'nice' to do this? During oral, or the main event? And how, I don't really get it. Just find the Hole and press a finger in. For example if he was on top, would I reach it from underneath? Also which finger. And when do I wash it? Straight after, I would think. But does that kill the moment? Also how long to keep the finger in?

And my nails are long. Would I need to have short nails for this.

Could someone please go through the basics of this please. Thanks