Hi.
I've read quite a few of these threads here over the last months. And - assuming everything in them is accurate - they make me feel sick.
These terrible, awful, disastrous men who are ruining women's lives - and the various children as well - deserve nothing from you. Nothing at all.
The gamblers, the drinkers, the facebook affair-ers, the playfighters, the beaters/slappers/pushers and shovers are just vile vile men. The ones who convince you its your fault/the kids fault/society's fault, who ring you crying/screaming/mocking, tell you you've got it easy/easier/easiest they are just utter utter bastards. Seriously.
There are plenty of reasonable men out there, many not perfect, I'm not, but plenty who will treat women correctly.
I've also known enough reprobates and idiot men myself, some of my friends even, to know when a woman should go.
I want to reply to all these awful threads on here but I would only say one thing over and over again...
PLEASE LEAVE THEIR SORRY FUCKING ARSES AND DON'T LOOK BACK.