If you hate giving blow jobs but do it anyway - please tell me how?

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I've never been able to bring myself to give them. Poor DH hasn't had one in the ten years we've been together and he's never pressured me about it but I know he would love it if I did.

I just don't know how to get past not wanting to. TBH it's purely about the thought of any stray sperm thatput me right off.

I like doing it, so can't really help to be honest. If he's not had one in 10 years is he that bothered?

If it's the sperm thing that's putting you off, could you include it as part of foreplay but not fully bring him to a finish, IYKWIM? Or do it with a condom on?

I don't mind doing it, but hate the semen in my mouth. I always remove my mouth before he comes. DH still gets the pleasure, he just doesn't get to come in my mouth

I hate doing it, so I don't do it.

Sorry, no advice to give!

Eugh I'm sorry but with a condom on ((hurl))!!!

By stray sperm do you mean the pre-ejaculant fluid? If you can't stand the taste there's not a lot you can do... but if you've not tasted it before it's no stronger than say, tears in most cases.

Why not just lick etc from the base upwards and not put the whole thing in your mouth? Well not the whole thing obviously, but the end. Oral pleasure doesn't have to mean it touching your tonsils.

I won't let DP come in my mouth...makes me heave.
But we have an understanding that everything we do is mutually enjoyable and TBH he's just grateful he's getting one!!!

erm same way as doing it as if you liked it I spose. Mouth on cock

I don't swallow.

I rarely swallow, and don't much enjoy doing it very often. It;s one of those things I do and put up with because I know how much he enjoys it. Try sucking a mint at the same time maybe? ;)

Once I start I normally get quite turned on (seeing him turned on) - it's gearing myself up to do it in the first place that's the problem. You can get flavoured lube that's safe to use for oral sex - would that help OP?

get drunk.

Rub melted chocolate on.

lick it off

Marvellous suggestion from mrsblanc

I don't mind swallowing myself- saves sleeping in a damp patch

it's what flavoured condoms were invented for......

Does he want you to do it?

There is a school of thought that says you should not do anything in the bedroom that you don't want to do- it's called "It's okay to say "no"."

There is another school of thought which says that if your partner wants you to do something very much and you are not wholly happy to do it, well, maybe give it a try just to see? But only if you want to, notif they are pressurising you as that would not be a loving thing to do.

Surely it all comes down to how much it repulses you- and how much he wants it?

Many, many women give BJs but stop just before ejaculation, or spit not swallow if they get the timing wrong!

Have you tasted "stray sperm"- it's just like saliva really but a bit more salty- well, ime!

What about you and cunnilingus- does he do it for you and do you enjoy it?

Flavoured condoms? Erg. Even worse than normal ones in my opinion!

Last time I asked the doctor for some condoms she gave me a load in a paper bag - when I got home I realised they were all flavoured and coloured!

DP was not impressed when I fell about in giggles at the sight of his cock encased in bright green rubber...

flavoured condoms are not meant
for penetrative sex - stupid doctor....

I don't like a wet patch either, so I usually get up afterward and spit it in the toilet. Not romantic but dh doesn't care cos he's got what he wanted
I love receiving - hence why I do bjs.

I learnt this tip from a friend - it's great for the guy and so much better for you... Although for the record, I always finish off by hand, never actually let him * in my mouth...

Have a fizzy drink with you - great if it's champagne or fizzy wine but I'm PG at the moment so it's sparkling water - makes no difference to the feeling for them...

Take a mouthful (not too big though, dribbling water down your chin while delivering a blow job isn't too attractive ) and take "it" in your mouth. Let the bubbles play around it and the taste of what you're drinking will take away any taste of him... Do this a few times - apparently the feeling is great for them!!

Note to self - trying that one tonight, thanks Dawn!

urgh urgh urgh at going to spit it in the toilet! This means you hold it in your mouth for a period of time while you get to the bathroom to spit it out! UUURRGGGHHHHHHH!

beanie - I know, but it's better than swallowing

for many many years I didn't know if I was a spitter or a swallower as I never ever finished the job! I know now though!

I don't get that ladylush, because it's the taste of it in my mouth that i can't stand, so once it was in there I'd just as easily swallow it as spit it out