How often do you have sex?

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I'm doing a straw poll here. DH says I'm not normal. According to him everyone else is having sex 3 or 4 times a week.
I'm a SAHM to a DD (2). I'm just pretty tired most of the time. I know it doesn't help that I have low self esteem with regard to body image/weight issues etc) but I really struggle to get into the mood to have sex. So at this moment in time I'm averaging once every 8 weeks.

Anyone else want to share?

joybelles got to say, your dh is a tit! No man worth his salt should ever not want to love his dw because shes put weight on, I dont think you need to lose weight I think you need to lose the dh. I am 3 stone over my usual, DD is 2.5yrs, and my dp has never and would never not want to have sex with me cause he loves me and my rather rounded ass.

joybelles, I have a few extra stones and my hubby still fancies me! I am losing the weight but it is a long process ( over a year so far and about another year to go I reckon)but we still get it together about 3 or 4 times a week. In fact, this morning he suggested that as both our teenage DS are out tonight, we should skip the weekly shopping trip and have a very early ( like 6pm) night instead! Sounds like a good plan to me so, a quick trip to supermarket at lunchtime for something to bung in the microwave for dinner and then leave work early to prepare for romantic night at home! yum yum!

Hmmm, our twins are under a year, so I am always pretty exhausted, but give me a couple of early nights to rest up and we'd go at it twice a day:-) Usually about 3-4 times a week though. DH is simply fabulous, what can I say:-)