What is it with men?

[ToBeOrNotToBee]

Story is matched with this man, we arranged a date which became quite short because of time constraints, I was flying out the next day. There was a lot of mutual flirting and attraction and we ended up in bed not long after.

Unfortunately, he suffered a bit of ED so nothing penetrative happened. He then got quite embarrassed and before I fully realised what was happening he was dressing and left shortly after, saying this was obviously a one time thing, meanwhile I'm starkers laying in bed below him.

I text him shortly after he left when I was still thinking things through. He didn't reply all day yesterday, today I get this pretty awful message, and I just feel disgusted.

Was this him making light of the situation or does he genuinely see me as only good for pleasuring him.

It's a man with ED and PD (personality dysfunction). Just block and move on.

I'm going to use PD from now on, thanks.

Yep making his problem your problem. Block and move on.

What a twat he is. You’ve dodged a bullet.

Vile

Why don't you reply "I might do that if you could get it up".

As if you'd be interested.

Prick with a non-working dick.So many men can't seem to manage PIV these days due to ED. Was it always like this I wonder?

Well, quite

I definitely wouldn’t be sparing his feelings

He’d be a cheeky fucker for that message if only he could actually be a fucker

Rubbish took itself out.

Ugly behaviour.

All this ‘ED’ recently is amazing! How old are these guys?

Absolutely gross,who on earth is going to reply positively to that.

I'd have to reply I'll give sucking your floppy willy a pass, thanks though x

Ed, sorry, but limp dick, not in my mouth.

You just met this stranger and went somewhere with him for sex? Did anyone know where you were? That's really risky behaviour. Please have more concern for your own safety.

Well, it isn't all men, though obviously for heterosexual women, any sex problems by definition have to be with men. But you certainly don't have to be with this particular man if he upsets you. Having ED isn't uncommon (yes he should get investigated as it can signal other health issues, but most people wouldn't want to tell someone to see a doctor when they aren't even in a long term relationship), but he shouldn't be judged badly for ED any more than a women who has a gynae issue stopping her having sex. Of course that doesn't mean you have to be with someone who says things that make you uncomfortable or worse. Trying to be generous, he might have meant it as a joke, but that's irrelevant if it makes you upset, and not all men would say that.

I’d probably reply asking him if he thought he would actually be able to stay hard long enough for that, but I’m in a bitchy mood this afternoon so maybe don’t take my advice 🤣

Sounds like compensation for his cock not getting hard.
Make of that whatever you will.
Were you drunk or was he drunk?

As everyone else said but why did you send him ‘I feel really bad about this’? What did you have to feel bad about?

I wouldn’t have replied ‘that’s hurtful’ I’d have replied with a string of crying with laughter emojis and then blocked him.

'Relationship men' and 'a quick fuck men' are different. For different purposes. You need different expectations.
This was 'a quick fuck man'. Why would you even message a quick fuck man after he can't do his job?
A quick fuck man disappears if you are not available sexually within quite short time. That is good. That's your first sift through.
People will NOT respect you more than you respect yourself.
If in urgent need, adult shop items cause less heartache.

Well that's fucking grim.

Throw the entire man in the sea.

Hope you blocked him

🤣🤣🤣

ED increasingly means porn sick.

😫🤢 What a basic human he is. Oh dear, Do block.

Just reply ‘I hope you get some help for your disorders’ and block.