What is it with men?

[ToBeOrNotToBee]

Story is matched with this man, we arranged a date which became quite short because of time constraints, I was flying out the next day. There was a lot of mutual flirting and attraction and we ended up in bed not long after.

Unfortunately, he suffered a bit of ED so nothing penetrative happened. He then got quite embarrassed and before I fully realised what was happening he was dressing and left shortly after, saying this was obviously a one time thing, meanwhile I'm starkers laying in bed below him.

I text him shortly after he left when I was still thinking things through. He didn't reply all day yesterday, today I get this pretty awful message, and I just feel disgusted.

Was this him making light of the situation or does he genuinely see me as only good for pleasuring him.

I mean either would do

red pill

Yikes! Yes, BLOCK and get on with your life. What a loser!

Ewww, I couldn’t even respond to that without being sarcastic so I’d just block and forget him. Some men are just grim and honestly only interested in getting their needs met by whatever means possible 🤮

Depending how you feel about him.
If you wanted maximum humiliation I would not even mention the ED, but say his cock smelled and he was a weird guy but you wish him all the best. Then don’t block him but just ignore his messages

An absolute prick with a non functioning prick.

Can I have his phone number? 🤣😂

Yeah I'd messshe back " So you suffer with PD as well? Got it "

Then block him

" your limp dick?? ... No thanks" and block

I don't think I have understood the problem. You met up once and jumped straight to sex (no problem) but now you're upset that's all he wants?

Why are you upset? He is a cheeky twat, yes but you don't seem shy, just get him told! I would legit reply: "you'll need to make me cum before I go near your dick again. It's a rule I have. I'm obviously not just here for your pleasure". I'm surprised you messaged him at all. Doesn't seem like you will get any satisfaction with him.

This.

This is excellent and I will be stealing it thankyou x

Just because you sleep with someone on a first date (nothing wrong with that) you should not expect rude and really crass message, that would be a major ick for me. the reason I don't sleep on the fist date is because I want to weed out these twa-ts before giving them access to my body.

Mmm I don't know if it was rude though.. it was direct, but was it rude? He is allowed to say what he wants and his 'shocked' reaction says it all.. if he thought they were on the same page and he was just having a laugh.. I dunno.. the OP was acting like it was a totally unreasonable message and I don't agree.

Block him and move on. His loss not to have a relationship with you.

Bar is low 😲

Yeah if you started out super polite and formal(!) - but they didn't! Well, that's the impression I got.

I meant that the bar is low on MN. I'm shocked at these posters that think it's ok to send a woman (suggesting normal activities) such a crass and disrespectful message. Yes they slept on the first date, so what? Does that give him a free pass to be a jerk? I don't think so. Sorry but it's quite a horrible mssage.

Just another reason to not bother with them. So many men who just can't deal with their own shit.

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He sounds like a fucking idiot who clearly isn’t capable of adult communication !.
He was embarrassed with what happened , but instead of owning it & messaging back with a normal light hearted reply such as “ why are you sorry 😂 , yeah coffee sounds cool 😊 “ .
He replies like I said , like a fucking Idiot !!!

What are you doing by being upset about sleeping with a man within hours...Ed or personality issues...what about standards and safety.. geezus.

There is also a pink pill for women who agree with red pilled men.

And what is that?

Its a recent feminist book looking at radicalisation of women. How/why women choose to support the Andrew Tates of the world.
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/209283723-pink-pilled

Aka how you recruit handmaids of the Patriarchy…

It's one result of prior Covid infections.
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Disgusting pig.