Aibu kicked dhs friends out..

[amiwronghere1]

Last night had a few drinks with dhs mate and dh at home. All fine, come 12am another friend turns up.
I said I'm off to bed due to dc. Expected dh to be a hour or so no more.
Been kept awake all bloody night by the noise, miracle how dc slept through.
By then it was 6am and I heard dh trying to tell them to go he was tired and ready for bed. One of the friends was saying they needed to stay till they could get in their house till 8am.
By 7am I went down and could see dh exhausted, so I told them both to basically leave now we have dc to get up too soon.

One of the friends was annoyed with dh as the other latched onto them, they could easily of said they were going to bed and goodbye! Dh apologised but heard nothing else.

Am I in the wrong here?
And yes I am very tired and annoyed. Dh has gone to bed and I haven't managed to sleep a wink and I have a extremely busy week ahead.
Just to say we in London so plenty of places open!

Without childcare? Oh ...I see OP is default childcare, safety monitor? Right right

Agree. Not appropriate at all.

Ignore. They want a reaction, Lorra form.

Dont be so silly and offensive. When I made the decision to have a child, she was my always our very top priority until the day she left home and she ALWAYS came first. I chose not to have a child until we were old enough and my husband was just about earning enough for us to able to manage for me to stay at home with her full time during her formative years to give her what we considered to be the very best start in life. Of course we made adjustments and sacrifices to our lives - huge ones - but having a child didn't mean that our ENTIRE life had to be turned upside down and changed or that we suddenly had to completely stop any sort of socialising. I’d love to know what was wrong with, or how it impacted on, our daughter on the rare occasions we had friends round until very late at night or until the next morning if she wasn’t even aware that they were there? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Of course people don’t need to take drugs to stay awake if they’ve been drinking for 12 hours. Im sure some people do, but Ive never found it necessary to take anything to keep me awake.

You only chucked them out in early morning after they'd kept you awake all night.. You even offered them a sofa to sleep on.

If they don't want to visit again ... Good!!
They have no manners and your DH actually apologised for them. Weak.

Personally I think alcohol alone is enough to keep someone awake unless your absolutely hammered and can't see straight. Never seen the interest in drugs. Did it once in my late teens and hated it didn't know where to put myself.

I don’t agree, eventually that person will conk out. Your husband may well have not had any coke but I can guarantee the later arrival had the coke. Just wipes all your surfaces down, wouldn’t want the kids accidentally ingesting any residue

The early hours of the morning are a bit different to 7am. I should think most of us have stayed up til 2, 3, 4 and even 5am fueled on alcohol. Staying up to the actual waking/daylight hours of the next day is more than likely fueled by something more though.

As a one off, which you said it was then I would just get over it and get on with my day. And let him sleep it off and then forgive and forget. It’s not really a big deal once every couple of years for example.
if it happened regularly then I would be making plans to separate but it sounds like this has happened once, so it’s not really a let’s bring the house down situation.

Our DC grannies lived 100 of miles away, so not that easy to ship them off there

They would have been gone before midnight in my house. My sleep is too important to me. And being too stupid to go to bed on time does not excuse one from parenting. Dh would be up and out for the day with the dc even if no sleep. Obviously not driving, but I wouldn’t be tucking him in to bed at 7am while I had to get on with it.

It's a big deal in our house!

Maybe for some people, but all three of them still awake at 7am just on alcohol? 🤔 How are you both able to parent if you've been awake all night?

Unfortunately it isn't. There seems to be a lot of selfish people about these days

Is cocaine involved by any chance?

I would be amazed if cocaine wasn't involved with them staying up all night! OP seems to be ignoring all the references to it so far.

I've never taken cocaine in my life so don't assume people saying cocaine is involved take drugs! They didnt stay up late either they stayed up all night.

If they didn't wake the kids, I'd not bother as a one-off.

Exactly, Eurovision parties 😂

I literally said no.

Well dh is dying in bed this is the worse ive ever seen him. Im running on red bull, did have a 20 minute power nap on the sofa while dc were watching a movie.

bit confusing? where did the drugs bit come in? cant find it but drugs with kids they would have been out be it 2 in the morning or 8 in the morning.
why did they not just go to a pub with your partner? or if they did why on earth did they come back? your partner should be more considerate as he knows that he has children.

So be amazed 😂 I’ve stayed up all night just drinking before and I’ve never done coke in my life, people have just invented this idea into the story when OP has said nothing of the sort.

Maybe the poster is Swedish. They take it VERY seriously.