Let me start by saying….i know.
I know what you will think.
i know what I should do, but not everything is as cut and dry I life.
i think im looking for some space to talk as i dont have anyone.
ive found some very suspicious activity on my husbands iPad. I think the thing that made me look was in his drawer i found a remote and leaflet for a sex toy. When I asked him about it he said he’d bought it for me and then thrown it away as I wasn’t ever “up for it”. Anyway I’ve since found the toy and I’m 99% sure it’s an anal one, totally not my thing, never have never will.
then ive found viagra in his wallet.
ive gone snooping on his iPad, and ive found the usual porn, fine I can handle that. But in notes there was an address and two phone numbers. When I’ve put them into WhatsApp one says a business open 24hours and the other has a profile pic which is very suggestive.
in his passwords I’ve found he has an only fans account, a fan vue account and one I’m not sure about one, it’s little password picture is an AW, possibly a website called adult work which would tie into the numbers I’ve found.
he doesn’t have WhatsApp on his iPad so I can’t see any of those messages. And I can’t access his phone.
but….we have life 360 and ring doorbell cameras etc.
now the only thing I could think is that if he’s met up then he’s left his phone at work so I couldn’t see where he was.
i know I should confront him, but I’m kinda wanting some more solid evidence.
im not sure how I can get his phone unless I take it whilst he’s asleep.
we’ve been married 25 years, have three children, mortgage, you name it!