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Does size really matter problem

118 replies

thorninrose · 06/06/2008 02:57

hi girls, my partner thinks his manhood is small and thinks he should have an enlargment even though i tell him it is fine. I did see the great british body the other night and they said the average was between 6 and 7". To me that sounds huge so am i missing out on something or should i not worry about his size.

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S1ur · 08/06/2008 01:12

no to lover. you made a choice. work it out.

do more more moe pelvic floor exercises to tighten yourself and experiment with sex. Not just positions but fantasies and other stuff.

Why not yo have little to lose and he may e able to avoid surgery which would be a good thing for anyone

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 01:32

why dont you see what the trolls under the bridge have in their trousers. surely that must be bigger than your poor DP.

back to the subject at hand then.

for those of you who have vaginal orgasms do you think every woman is able to or do you think its a sort of gift? Anyway I sometimes wonder if I have had them as trust me it feels very very very good when we are having sex but it just never shatters the way a clitoral orgasm does. Are they all supposed to shatter?

welovetelegraphpoles · 08/06/2008 01:55

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eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 01:57

wow I have never heard that one! Surely one of the two traditional ways would work before anal would. but then look at all the different stuff that turns people on. Who knows?

EenybeenyBOO · 08/06/2008 01:59

tis technique mostly. and paitence to discover how things can work for your. OR swtching to someone who fits astraight away but not recommeneded when you have a monogomous fa,ily set up.

welovetelegraphpoles · 08/06/2008 01:59

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EenybeenyBOO · 08/06/2008 02:03

eeeek sorry joke name change.

not EENYBEANY@S VIEWS.

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 02:04

well look imposter eeny:

me and DH do fit straight away. I have had previous partners and never had a vaginal orgasm. I just dont seem to have much feeling there! Bits broken from over use??

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 02:05

LOL

there is no "a" in my beeny

eanybeeny · 08/06/2008 09:51

my DH really does have a small penis.
i was just baosting before never mind

bumperlicious · 08/06/2008 11:02

Eeny (whichever you are) I can only orgasm vaginally with the use of a vibrator, and it's not a powerful a a clitoral one. I thought I was "broken" for a while - anyone else want to make us feel normal?

solo · 08/06/2008 11:02

Everyone is different and I guess that is to say that we all ' feel' things differently and that would, I'm guessing include what we ' feel in our minds. What's good for me wouldn't necessarily do it for you...
We also do change as we age, so don't be afraid to try things you didn't like 4 years ago now, because you might just find that you are more sensitive physically and more open minded mentally now and what you really didn't like then, you find you want all the time now!

solo · 08/06/2008 11:06

When I was a learner in the bedroom department, I had a lover that was 9 years older than me and he told me of an exg that jumped all over the place when he put a finger up her bum and his thumb up her fanjo and rubbed them together through the wall...never tried it on me though I was a bit too green I think.

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 11:12

will the eAny imposter please stop slandering my DH!

EENY is the real poster!

Thank you other ladies for your thoughts. Will keep practising quite happily!

Salamander · 08/06/2008 13:17

Hi Everyone!

Salamander · 08/06/2008 13:23

Just wanted to log on here and say that this is no big deal.
Seems to be a lot of namechanging troll stuff and general excitement since the holiday season started.
Maybe people are getting sun-happy or something.

Don't post anymore but access MN remotely through Eeny.

Actually think we should all feel flattered that people choose us to immitate.

Hi to all - possibly will start posting again - we'll see!

Janos · 08/06/2008 14:40

Nah, size really isn't important and I've seen everything on the spectrum.

Really big ones can be painful.

joash · 08/06/2008 14:50

Ok, so we've had clitoral orgasm's & vaginal orgasms - but what about female ejeculation? Anyone exprienced that?

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 15:47

I'd say No but then someone else will just come along and say I have s whats the point?

Kally · 08/06/2008 16:03

Ok so most are in agreement that size does matter. Can I ask whether being circumcised makes a difference. Reason for asking, EH was Jewish therefore 'clipped' and not a small guy, then after all those long years went with a guy who was 'intact' and I was a bit confused as to what happens with the extra covering.. (he wasn't as large as EH) but was a good lover despite (was more active out than in, so to speak) ... present guy is circumcised so I'm back in a familiar comfort zone. Anyone else like me with no real experience of foreskins and how to behave with it?... I always wondered if I was doing something wrong when with him and can't ask now...

joash · 08/06/2008 23:35

If you mean does circumcision matter in terms of size - then no, it doesn't affect size. I have heard that a circumsised penis is supposed to be more sensitive, yet existing medical knowledge (research?) sugests that it actually decreases sensitivity.

Mamazon · 08/06/2008 23:38

having only read op -

if it fits and your happy then who care's what the average is?

I once dated a aguy who had the most enormouse penis ever....i swear he kicked it along the floor!
and sex was too painfull.

it doesn't matter if he has a jumbo jet in his pants, unless you've got a hanger for a fanjo.

eenybeeny · 08/06/2008 23:38

I have heard the exact opposite that circumsised penii... LOL is that the plural of penis???

anyway that they lose a lot of sensation. I know of someone who wanted to sue his parents because they circumsised him and he said he didnt feel as much as other men.

personally I think a non circumsised penis is much better looking!

Mamazon · 08/06/2008 23:40

how did he know he felt less than other men?

maybe he just imagined that as he was "different" he was somehow missing out.

Pan · 08/06/2008 23:41

"is that the plural of penis???"
Nope. Leeds United Football Club.