Does size really matter problem

[thorninrose]

hi girls, my partner thinks his manhood is small and thinks he should have an enlargment even though i tell him it is fine. I did see the great british body the other night and they said the average was between 6 and 7". To me that sounds huge so am i missing out on something or should i not worry about his size.

It's not the size of the army, it's the force of the attack

I'm very small, height-wise, and I've had men that were really too big for me to accomodate, which was bloody painful. I think it depends on your size as well.

Don't know if size matters as most of my sexual partners have been pretty average, but him on top works best for me too.

Joash, but is the OP happy?

girlnextdoor, that's a trcky one. Clitoral stimulation brings me to climax, but, clitoral stimulation whilst love making is the most powerful orgasm I have and I feel it vaginally, if that makes any sense.

I always cum in missionary and on top positions as I can control depth and stimulation of clit.

I think girth is more important than length, but it's no fun when it's so short that it keeps falling out and tries to jump into the other boat...Exh was not only short, but also small around the shaft too...not a winning combination...he did have a fab tongue though IIRC

My Dp thinks his is small and would like it bigger. He is actually quite average, but I'd be happy to oblige him at any time regardless of his size because I love him to bits.

I'd also like to start a pole(sorry poll)on the myth surrounding well endowed black men.true or false...I find it's false! not all black men have big choppers!

i think it is the shoe size that determines the length of a mans penis

hmmm.all mine have taken size 9s but their willies were all different!

Check out their nose size, I think that holds a better reflection of willy size

Blimey, my dad must be enormous then!!

Hand span - if they spread their fingers wide, measure the tip of their little finger to the tip of their thumb & that's the size of their willy.

could he strap a cucumber to it?

sorry

My DP has the hugest hands & the longest fingers I have ever seen! Not sure about the hand span theory!!

Ex-DH had a weenie peenie . Twasn't good for me. The Coital Alignment Technique can help though - which I think is what the OP is doing to get some stimulation.

But a big willy isn't everything. Penetration is a tiny, tiny part of sex (especially with a small todger ) or at least it should be.

New DH has a ginormous one, I've gone from the ridiculous to the sublime .

I've been chuckling away at this post..... however, I'm in a really good relationship at the moment but the one problem is that ever since we've started have sex, my dp doesn't come inside me, but he does when I stimulate him orally.

Anyone else been in this position? And anyone with any ideas of how to get over this little hurdle?

Love making otherwise is incredibly satisfying.

Troll methinks

noses- littlewoman- they have all had big noses too!

Girlnestdoor - Vaginal orgasms last a lot longer and come and go - so to say - you think you are coming down off it and then suddenly it starts up again, but from within, not from your clitoris. If you get both going together now thats worth a lot. I often find too that if I orgasm clitorally then it becomes a bit sensitive after and I was to change position where its not 'in contact'.. you have to try to stave off the urge to let yourself orgasm clitorally to get the vaginal one, which means doing those keigel contractions with the 'pumping' action. Ha ha ha listen to me! But then I'm 51 and still active and enjoying sex to the full. Anyone else agree with me on this experience?

Yeah, I have heard that about noses, but at least two examples of this theory have been wrong. Often is true though. (I don't even know if hand span theory is true, it's just what dp told me).

Handspan is usually right from tip of small finger to thumb-tip when stretched out.. mind you that would make the theory about how accountants all have small grabby little hands... well.. does that mean that all accountant have small peckers? Naaaaa.... theory out the window...

Solo - have dated a few black guys and they are all different. My guy at the mo is black and one of the larger built men. (Just as I have been with well endowed non-black men). But IMO it has to be that certain brain thing... thats the biggest turn on. The willy size is just a bonus...LOL

Kally, I've definitely got a man with a good brain and then some . First black experience for me though, so I've got nothing to compare him with in the wlly department, though I have been told that many of them have ordinarily average sized ones! don't know whether to express my disappointment really...No! not to him, he's already hung up about his size...

Size measure again...Tip of middle finger, bring it straight down as if to the thumb pad. Mark where tip of finger stops and then the mark to the tip of the fully extended middle finger tip should be the length of the old chap!

As far as I know (???) I have never had a vaginal orgasm either though its not for want of trying! My DH is a really really wonderful lover and well endowed but I just cant seem to get to that point. Its very frustrating feeling like I am missing something. And in romance novels they always climax simoultaneously.

Does size really matter?

Um, yes, yes it does.

Tiny dick, pencil dick = dealbreaker in my book.

Sorry, but they're tongue's a tongue, not a cock.

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Yeah, memories. As in, he's not still there and has been replaced with something more, erm, filling and satisfying .

Yep! you're good! a tongue is a tongue and not a cock. Hell of a tongue though, which made up for the lack of endowment in the cock area.