Do you still snog/kiss with tongues?

[Wheels1928]

Just wondering how many of you still snog with tongues? My OH and I have been together four years and still eat each other’s faces off at every given opportunity 😂

Tbh we've reached that point 5 years in where tongues pretty much always means sex.

Yup been with my OH for 8 years and still all over each other

Hell yeah, lol

Yes. 20 years in.

Here's a weird thing:

My wife and I had sex the night we met. Her idea. Yet, right from the beginning, she completely banned kissing with tongues, which is a nightmare for me because I find it intensely intimate and erotic.

Mind you, she went on to have at least one affair, and we recently went seven years without sex. I think she has some peculiar hangups regarding sex. I should point out she's far more sexually experienced than me.

Yes we do.

@Eric1964 wtf? Are you still with her? If so please start your own thread, you need help.

I'm a No (or at least very rarely) - it does absolutely nothing for me!!

@AnneLovesGilbert Don't worry: I've already bored enough people with my story in various threads and I don't see why everyone here should suffer.

Yes, I'm still with her. I'm having therapy to help me find the strength to take my next steps.

Anyway, back to the snogging...

I love it. My new man and I can snog for hours. Hadn't snogged with my ex for years and really missed it.

I've got my long married friends back on the snogging as well after extolling the delights. Their husbands are delighted

4 years is really nothing. It’s weird to think couples wouldn’t kiss after 4 years.

Can’t imagine having sex without snogging. That said with my ex towards the end I could switch off and have duty sex (tended to enjoy it once got going!) but the snogging I struggled with.

Nope, but then again French kissing dh is not too dissimilar to kissing a slobbering Labrador who’s been salivating over a roast chicken for at least an hour.

No. During the first few years but now 20 years on, brush of lips. I miss it a lot.

Yes, it’s only been 47 years.

50 and haven't had a snog in 3 years, I miss it so much!

Yes nearly 20 years in and we have a snog a few times most days, love kissing him.

Sometimes during love making

Never done anything for me. Lots of things have .... but not that.

Ditto 😂 there's the odd occasion when we may snog in the kitchen or something but then its a bit frustrating as can't go further with it due to kids being awake!

38 years. No

Urgh no. A peck on the lips will do me fine.

Never been a fan of tongue kissing. Ditto oral sex on me.

15 years in we still do, I like the passion of it

I do if DH initiates it but tbh I've never enjoyed snogging anyone much. It's just so wet and slimy and I keep thinking about whether I have food trapped in my teeth or something.

I like kissing without tongues, massage, and actual sex infinitely more.

27 years and yes, a lot. I assumed nearly everyone did but looks like I was way off base there!