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Do you still snog/kiss with tongues?

118 replies

Wheels1928 · 29/05/2025 19:58

Just wondering how many of you still snog with tongues? My OH and I have been together four years and still eat each other’s faces off at every given opportunity 😂

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SomewhereInTheMIdlands · 30/05/2025 19:17

At my age I say 🤮

PorgyandBess · 30/05/2025 19:37

What do non snoggers do when they’re having sex? I can’t imagine this.

ForRubyMoose · 30/05/2025 20:08

PorgyandBess · 30/05/2025 19:37

What do non snoggers do when they’re having sex? I can’t imagine this.

Such on nipples

BlondeCircus · 30/05/2025 20:11

41 years for us , yep us too

RusticChill · 30/05/2025 20:23

If you’re with a good kisser you want tongues but if you’re not you don’t.

and you know you’re missing out!

pollymere · 30/05/2025 21:53

Getting on for 30 years of kissing with tongues...

Floogal · 30/05/2025 22:23

We're in our early 40s and been together 20 years. I do like the occasional Frenchy. Especially exciting when we're only wearing our briefs and we're cuddling too and grabbing each others bums

FlipFlopVibe · 30/05/2025 23:46

Used to love snogging, I remember our first date and we ended up snogging on the dance floor like teenagers, it was that good we had to make a hasty retreat to his place. We still laugh that we did that on a first date.
Men who are good kissers are good with their mouths elsewhere too! But then kids came along and the snogs around the house dried up, then other places did too.
DH would love to carry on like we used to but I feel completely touched out from the kids and we barely kiss at all never mind snog. If we do get to do the deed, there’s a lot of snogging with tongues, otherwise not at all.

IAmNotDarling · 31/05/2025 00:10

I adore snogging.

My XH kissed me the last time we had sex and it was all wrong. In a way he’d never kissed me before. It felt awful. When he told me the following week he was having an affair and was leaving me, it all made sense.

My BF and I snog every opportunity we can I never want it to change. It doesn’t always lead to sex and I want to keep it that way.

Cherryicecreamx · 31/05/2025 10:02

Doitrightnow · 29/05/2025 21:04

I do if DH initiates it but tbh I've never enjoyed snogging anyone much. It's just so wet and slimy and I keep thinking about whether I have food trapped in my teeth or something.

I like kissing without tongues, massage, and actual sex infinitely more.

Yes me too, snogging always seems a bit icky to me. Only done it to move to the next base haha

Doitrightnow · 31/05/2025 10:23

PorgyandBess · 30/05/2025 19:37

What do non snoggers do when they’re having sex? I can’t imagine this.

Kiss without tongues.
Kiss literally any other part of the body.
Whisper suggestively into their ear.

Doitrightnow · 31/05/2025 10:28

RusticChill · 30/05/2025 20:23

If you’re with a good kisser you want tongues but if you’re not you don’t.

and you know you’re missing out!

Definitely not true.

My first snog was with an appalling kisser who was like a washing machine! I've had some excellent kissers since then but it still doesn't do anything for me. Although it was definitely less bad than washing machine boy!

I assume it's like having your hair played with. I love having my hair played with, even by a violent toddler, but I know some people who can't bear their hair being touched, even by a gifted professional. Also know people who hate massages.

lilkitten · 31/05/2025 13:40

Yes! I love it. I'm poly and have two romantic partners, the one I've been with for a year we're still very much in that stage; the one I've been with for 18 years he drifted to little kisses but I had to tell him I like a full-on snog about 5 years ago, and he does now. I'm not particularly sexual though, so maybe that's why I like so much out of kissing.

SirRaymondClench · 31/05/2025 14:21

Married 13 years and still snog with tongues

MilesOfMotivation · 31/05/2025 15:03

Oh yes, love snogging. Have to say though I hated it with my ex husband, he was an awful kisser and we did it maybe once in 10 years or so. Current husband - we do it loads!

Crazyworldmum · 31/05/2025 19:28

Sure . In our 40s ,6 years together .

Wallywobbles · 31/05/2025 20:08

Yes. No snogging=no sex.

Gardengirl108 · 03/06/2025 15:54

Yes - 33 years in 🥰

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